I think the man is still to blame regardless. She didnt want to have sex with him , so since he forced himselef on her it is rape, and he should pay for what he has done. However, I personally won't pity her since she went over to a man's apartment to drink. What did she expected... wa salaamu alaikum

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I guess men could just guard the crops that could be temporary solution, while they are working on getting rid of the monkeys. wa salaamu alaikum

speaking abt respect. I THINK u are the one who should learn how to respect others. You shouldn't expect to be respected, if you don't know how to respect others. you know what my advice is go learn what respect means, before u demand it. cuz u dnt even know the first thing abt respect. wa salaamu alaikum

isnt this the flag of laas caanood!! yeah chief, i never seen burco, i am from laas caanood 2!! i just dont like clan cheerleaders! u feel me. Who is a clan cheerleader?? I have had enough of your comments, really I have tried to ignore you tons of times and I plan to do just that from now on. But I would like make myself clear Somalis from LA chose to be part of somaliweyn. It has nothing to do with cheering for certain tribe over the others. So keep yr lame comments to yourself. Chief just ignore him brother that is my advice. Haters like him should be ignored. wa salaamu alaikum

I was gonna start this topic, bt i wasnt sure how puja would react , i knew she was into indian movies. I thought i should have tissues handy.

What is wrong when a man cries over his first new born, or if he cries over a verse of quran? It is quite natural, men are human, they are not made of something else. Ofcourse they make it seem like they are acting tough and what not bt we know otherwise. nephthys sis next time your brother cries comfort em instead of running tanaa wa salaamu alaikum

Nice pix.

first sight as in ? qacda hore, qacda labaad, mise dhowrka qacood ee hore, mise kulan hore? lol zu hadalkasta maxaad sida kale ugu rogta horta, majajilo wa in aad dhigta adiga wa salaamu alaikum

No.... you don't have to know someone to love them. Love is usaully without knowledge. am kinda curious. How can you love some one that u dnt know??? can you just walk outside and meet a stranger and be like wow I don't know you, bt I love u...... :rolleyes: wa salaamu alaikum

Aaliyah rageedii..keep looking. ps. you dont think am rude since we disagreed on some issue do you? I don't judge individuals simply cuz we have different political perspectives. I think we could just agree to disagree on those issues. ^^Yes she does. She told me she does not like you and you are NOT the one. naa maxaad isku diri. ka joog I agree,whats love got to do with[marriage],to sustain a marriage,there ought to be more then lovey dovey love,patients,tolerance,maturity etc etc Dahia what is your definition of love sister??? isn't part of loving some one caring for them, being patient, respecting them, and tolerating your differences??

Rudy you have issues with us Xalimos and somali weddings. dhaqan celis ba u baahantahay hana wareerin.

Q-Can you meet someone once and know they are your other half? A-I don't think you can know someone is your other half merely by meeting them once. I think love comes gradually. Q-Is it there truly only one person in the entire universe for you? A-am not so sure abt that, bt hopefully there is some one for everyone. am still looking for my mr charming, he is hiding somewhere in dis universe Q-Do you HAVE to know a person to be in love with them? A-Obviously, you have to know some one to be in love. How can you claim to be in love with someone you barely know? Q-Is love a necessary ingredient for marriage? A-yes absolutely, no question abt that. Q-Perhaps falling in love at first sight is somewhat like a paradoxical statement. A-I don't believe in falling in love at first sight, that wouldnt be love right. That would be lust, since it is only based on physical attraction. thats my 2 cent for now. This whole think came about when my friend started working at this new place. She has met few people on the first day and she absolutely detested one of the blokes there. A year later, she cant live without him. How did that happen? Cambaro sis as they say opposites attract. At first they prolly disagreed on many issues.But, that might have just brough them closer, the fact that they argue. Kinda weird bt happens. wa salaamu alaikum

With regards to number 7, does bukudiimo count? Cambaro sis my advice would be change that habit. Not to mention that it might cause some brain damage, it wouldnt even be comfortable to start with. xarago xanuun ma leh kulaheed , naa madaxaga u naxariiso

I recieved this email from one of my close friends, and thought I should share. So, hopefully it will have some impact on yr daily life style. BRAIN DAMAGING HABITS 1. No Breakfast People who do not take breakfast are going to have a lower blood sugar level. This leads to an insufficient supply of nutrients to the brain causing brain degeneration. 2. Overeating It causes hardening of the brain arteries, leading to a decrease in mental power. 3. Smoking It causes multiple brain shrinkage and may lead to Alzheimer disease. 4. High Sugar consumption Too much sugar will interrupt the absorption of proteins and nutrients causing malnutrition and may interfere with brain development. 5. Air Pollution The brain is the largest oxygen consumer in our body. Inhaling polluted air decreases the supply of oxygen to the brain, bringing about a decrease in brain efficiency. 6. Sleep Deprivation Sleep allows our brain to rest. Long term deprivation from sleep will accelerate the death of brain cells. 7. Head covered while sleeping Sleeping with the head covered increases the concentration of carbon dioxide and decrease concentration of oxygen that may lead to brain damaging effects. 8. Working your brain during illness Working hard or studying with sickness may lead to a decrease in effectiveness of the brain as well as damage the brain. 9. Lacking in stimulating thoughts Thinking is the best way to train our brain, lacking in brain stimulation thoughts may cause brain shrinkage. 10. Talking Rarely Intellectual conversations will promote the efficiency of the brain ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- The main causes of liver damage are: 1. Sleeping too late and waking up too late are main cause. 2. Not urinating in the morning. 3. Too much eating. 4. Skipping breakfast. 5. Consuming too much medication. 6. Consuming too much preservatives, additives, food coloring, and artificial sweetener. 7. Consuming unhealthy cooking oil. As much as possible reduce cooking oil use when frying, which includes even the best cooking oils like olive oil. Do not consume fried foods when you are tired, except if the body is very fit. 8. Consuming raw (overly done) foods also add to the burden of liver. Veggies should be eaten raw or cooked 3-5 parts. Fried veggies should be finished in one sitting, do not store. We should prevent this without necessarily spending more. We just have to adopt a good daily lifestyle and eating habits. Maintaining good eating habits and time condition are very important for our bodies to absorb and get rid of unnecessary chemicals according to 'schedule.' Because: Evening at 9 - 11pm : is the time for eliminating unnecessary/toxic chemicals (detoxification) from the antibody system (lymph nodes). This time duration should be spent by relaxing or listening to music. If during this time a housewife is still in an unrelaxed state such as washing the dishes or monitoring children doing their homework, this will have a negative impact on health. Evening at 11pm - 1am: is the detoxification process in the liver, and ideally should be done in a deep sleep state. Early morning 1 - 3am: detoxification process in the gall, also ideally done in a deep sleep state. Early morning 3 - 5am: detoxification in the lungs. Therefore there will sometimes be a severe cough for cough sufferers during this time. Since the detoxification process had reached the respiratory tract, there is no need to take cough medicine so as not to interfere with toxin removal process. Morning 5 - 7am: detoxification in the colon, you should empty your bowel. Morning 7 - 9am: absorption of nutrients in the small intestine, you should be having breakfast at this time. Breakfast should be earlier, before 6:30am, for those who are sick. Breakfast before 7:30am is very beneficial to those wanting to stay fit. Those who always skip breakfast, they should change their habits, and it is still better to eat breakfast late until 9 - 10am rather than no meal at all. Sleeping so late and waking up too late will disrupt the process of removing unnecessary chemicals. Aside from that, midnight to 4:00 am is the time when the bone marrow produces blood. Therefore, have a good sleep and don't sleep late. TAKE CARE ABOUT YOUR HEALTH................. AND PASS THIS EMAIL TO WHOM YOU LOVE.....................

Nephthys sister listen to the following Link, Insha allah it would answer your question. http://www.aflax.net/audio/muxadaro/play.php?goto=20 wa salaamu alaikum

I said 'Hello, I have got nothing on, but if you want you can come in'. loooooool I wouldn't know why she is complaining, when the fact is that she went in regardless of his clothing status. meshu rabo haka taabto yada somay isku donan wa salaaamu alaikum

I wouldn't advice anyone to donate their eggs, or get some one else's eggs. In the scenerio of donating yr own eggs, some one else would raise ur child, a child whose biologically related to u. I mean how would one feel abt that, I personally wouldnt want dat. or in the other case, where u are raising some one else's child, since the child is nt even related to u, u were nothing more than a surrogate mother. who knows the donor might decide anytime that they wanna be involved with yr child's life. Honestly, this is more complicated than it seems. so my advice would be see if you can have your own baby, if that doesnt work out and truly you wanna raise a child, am sure there are tons of kids back home who are in need. Thats my 2 cent. wa salaamu alaikum

Welcome Skipper am sure u gonna like this site. It is good to see more ppl joining, it is time for new members.... wajiyadii hora ka daalay waxkal mahe wa salaamu alaikum

second wife kulaha gift ee ugu keentay , maantana shekada maa qaar lasoo baxeen :confused:

Shumey that was good one walahi. Thanks for sharing. wa salaam

Ilaahy ha u naxariisto, dadkoodana sabar iyo imaan haka siiyo. My heart goes out to their families, it must be hard on them. But, everyone is going to die it is just a matter of time. wa salaamu alaikum

Did you know that few faaraxs ran to canada right after the bridge fell? They (faaraxs) instructed their families to throw their cars into the Mssissippi river and morn them claiming their beloved farax has falling and was one of the deceased and give him the 4-1-1 after they collect the gov. compensation. Abdinadif ya waxa kugu shekeeyey, mise adiga iska hadlaya. :rolleyes: Crystal Clear lol sis qofkii serious ku qaata ka daran.Dadkii xiijisay hadana waxa keetay wa dhintey ninki sheeko

Cambaro thanks for sharing this with us sis. It is amazing experience, one that I hope Allah swt accepts from you. Insha allah we should all plan to pay a visit to Makkah, u know most of us we just plan a trip to Europe, Australia, and North america, makkah is rarely mentiond. For the most part is like insha allah we will visist makkah. we dont make any concrete decisions. But after reading yr post I am inspired to go there. Insha allah I am going to add it to my plans. Jazakalaahu khyr and may allah bless u. wa salaamu alaikum

lol it doesnt need any interpretation, u gonna become a bus driver,it could have been worst like I dont know ..I will think of something wa salaam and have a pleasant night.