The main point is that her parents are forcing her to marry a total stranger, and that comes against our religion. Not only do they take her back against her will, but arrange marriage sub3anlaah? .. What she was doing was haraam (which her parents are to blame anyway) but what they are doing is also Haraam. Two wrongs don't make right. I hope her parents realize that before it is too late.

^^ Well said

I think everyone is entitled to make their choices in life, it is irrelevant whether that choice is right or wrong. As Allah swt will deal with them in here after. No one has the right to force some one, and these parents will soon realize that, do they actually think forcing a marriage on her back home will solve this? wa salaamau alaikum

^^amiin ya alaah.. odayaashan ceeb moyane umada wax kale uma kordhin...ilaahow astur!!!

Ilaaahay baan uga baryana in waxwalba hagaago o sidiisi ku noqdo insha allah

I know for sure from his hatred comments that he is not from Laascaanod.

i am sure this another ethio scheme to make these clan boyz busy with each other. It is the Ethiopians who are behind the SL militia aggression on Sool. ha is damiiyaane daaf.. surely when the real somali freedom fighters come, then peace will return to beloved las anod. You would never have said "ha is dhameeyaane dhaafa" if you were actually from LA. So honestly what are you getting out of pretending some one you are not :rolleyes:

allah yarhamha Ibti. allah uu naxariisto, I hear that if you die on ramadan , you go to heaven,is true? CC I heard the same thing, so there is prolly some truth to it. bishan wacan qofki dhinta, wuxu dhintay bil sheydaanka ilaahay xidhxidhay, janadana albaabadiisa furay...bil ka wanagsan in la dhintu ma jirto...

Serenity u are right walahi, waxan oo dhan Zafir aya nagu wacan....waryaa danbiga naga dhaaf aad noo geesatay.

I wanted to mention to you that Zafir owed me some money...bal iigu soo hagaaji Al -Mustaqbal. waad mahadsan tahay. Ka baxay lol that was good one walahi, I couldnt stop laughing

LA is part of puntland ,and United Somalia. Anyone, who wants to believe otherwise is simply misleading emself. It is high time somalilanders face facts instead of fantacy.

Val ilaahay ha u naxariisto walaal

When the prophet (saw) said "the best among you is the best towards his family and I am the best amongst you towards my family" You are all emphasizing on HOW a wife has to be obedient and what not. But, as Cambaro stated only a man who met his responsibilities will be obeyed. When a man provides for his family, and he is compassionate of course his wife will obey him.....qofkasta wuxu shaqeesta uu helaya. [ October 04, 2007, 02:42 PM: Message edited by: AAliyah416 ]

Ghanima looool if they do please let me know how it turns out, cuz they can adopt my brothers as well. Ms I DON'T KNOW ABT U, bt I want a man who knows his way around the kitchen....that is like the first thing in my list hehehe.

I see many of you are pleased that her parents did this. I THINK you should condemn such actions. Qof wayn o la af duubay xaq ma aha.qofku marku yaryahay aya si wacan lo koriya, marku waynaado lama khasbo. Qof walbana ilaahay aya ka abaal marinaya wuxu shaqeesto. dadka waxba lo sheegaya kaliya, khasab mesha ma yaalo.

I'm not sure about that ........... in that case, in aa iska amusta lagu qaatay

^^Maxaa xaasid eh...Timo xiir iyo tumoow is the least she can get for dating him... Kool Kat, Why are you overlooking the fact that this girl is 23 years old ? old enough to decide who she should date or marry for that matter. Her parents have to stay out of her dating life. Perhaps, I could understand if she was like 15 then u might say oh she doesnt know whats good for her. But that is not the case, she is an adult, she is able to make her life decisions on her own.

^^Kool Kat lool naa kan yuusan lacagta ka furan, uma maleeenayo wuxu shegayo in ay run tahay.

^^^lol dahabshiil lacagta igu so hagaajiya igu daran laakin aan danbaabin hadii run arintan tahay, wax ku jabana ma jirto in laga cawiya qofka dayntiisa, waxana maqlay ilaa daynta la bixiyo qofka lama aasin karo.

It doesn't matter who she wanted to marry even if he was Christian that is her personal life. ilaahay ayaa ka abaal marinaya, her parents had no right whatsoever to force a man on her. tan kale never believe ur parents when they say they are taking you back for vacation, specially if you are doing something they are not happy about lol... Then you got hooyo, who's trying to put out a fire after the house has burned down....you raise the girl liberal then try some conservative bullsh!t like throwing her in jail if she don't marry some guy she just met. I'm putting most of the blame on Mom. I agree with you on this. if her parents raised her in a religious household, she wouldn't have dated gaalo. CARAB MAAHMAAH JIRTA...dhirtu markay korto biya hada ku shubtid ma toosayso, intuu yaryahay aya la waraabiya. hadii diin iyo akhlaaq iyo guri wacan lugu so koriyay sidan may noqoteen taas waa ku saxsantahay. hada ee rabta in ay gabadh wayn u taliso, haka saarto islaantas.

are you serious? or r u like messing around?

AAliyah abaayo don't talk in personal ways by calling others ignorent. thats wrong and everyone have their own views, like it or hate it.. Somali thinker blieves in borders and you think is wrong so argue about does facts laakiin ninkaan maskaxdiisa iska daa nooh..hadii ee raqiis tahay xitaa lol... markuu soo baraarugo ayaan si wacan ula hadlaya. wa ku mahadsantahay nasiixadaada.

Keep cring AALIYAH LOOOOL I know the truth hurts sweetie but you gota face it sooner than later. Laascaanod is under the control of puntland, and that is how it is going to stay.

You just described yourself dear. We all know Somali land will never be recognized internationally nor will it ever take over Laascaanod.

Sophist thanks for the update walaal. insha allah waxwalba sidiis bay ku noqonaya.