I am glad this case came to an end, or so we hope.

I am sorry Koolkat, it was not my position to give you an advice. My sincere apology.

^^kuwaas hadaad ka heshid, talow see u egtahay adiga? aad ayaad u qurxoontahay ayaan filaya

^^^Aniga run baan shegaya, hadaad runta ka indha xidhanasid wa sheeka ku taala ninyahow laakin dee japanese iyo kazakhstan aduu ka war doon, ya ku diidaya

The last time went to the Shiisha place was in July, so that is not so bad... you smoke Shisha, and you are a mother. I am quite speechless!!... You might say “ so what if I am a mother, am allowed to do as I please”…but from my perspective, if you are a mother you have to know what you are doing. After all, you are your kids' role model and they are looking up to you. You have to maintain perfection, or at least try so your kids can be guided to the right path. Good guidance starts from home sister.

The 10 Stages of Quitting by Tom Ferguson, M.D. Smokers tend to think of quitting as a huge, insurmountable obstacle. It's more realistic—and more useful—to think of it as a gradual, step-by-step process. Here's how to plan your course and what to expect along the way, along with some suggested activities to help you cope. 1. Think about cutting down/quitting Talk to others about smoking. Observe how nonsmokers react to smokers. Observe negative aspects of smoking. Smoke in front of a mirror to see exactly what goes on when you smoke. 2. Seek more information about quitting. Ask ex-smokers how they did it. Tell a friend you're exploring healthier alternatives to smoking. When you feel an urge to smoke, wait a minute before lighting up; experience the urge fully and think of other ways to respond to it. Reward yourself for becoming more aware of your smoking patterns. 3. Modify your smoking risk (switch brands, cut down, etc.). Start a smoking journal and record when you smoke more or less than usual. Try stress-reduction techniques. Adopt a healthful new activity that's incompatible with smoking (swimming, dancing, etc.). Switch to a lower tar brand. Reward yourself for each risk modification. 4. Decide to quit (no date set). Keep track of the number of cigarettes you smoke each day. Stop buying cartons; buy only one pack at a time. Identify your top cigarette triggers. Brush your teeth several times a day. List the reasons you want to quit. Switch brands every week, each brand being lower in tar than the last. Postpone every third cigarette. Ask family and friends for ways they can help you quit. 5. Set a quitting date. Sign a stop-smoking contract. Sit in the nonsmoking sections of restaurants and airplanes. Prepare at least three responses to your top 10 cigarette triggers. Switch brands after every pack. Postpone every other cigarette. Cut back on alcoholic beverages. Set up a health bank. (Deposit a certain amount of money each week that you'll get back after you stay smokeless for a specified period of time. Or quit with a group; whoever remains smokeless after a specified period divides the kitty.) 6. Refrain from smoking for 24 hours. Schedule healthful activities (walks, bike rides, fishing, etc.). Have your teeth cleaned. Send your favorite clothes to the cleaners. Discard all your ashtrays. Pamper yourself as much as possible. 7. Complete your first week as a nonsmoker. Treat yourself to daily rewards (massages, hot baths, etc.). Avoid smoking and drinking areas. Notice how much better your food tastes. Continue to work on your cigarette triggers. 8. Complete your first month. Begin a regular exercise program. Add one new stress-reduction technique to your activities each week. 9. Complete your first trimester. Gently increase your exercise level. Treat yourself to a weekend getaway. Volunteer to help a smoker quit. If you've been using a nicotine replacement, begin to cut back. 10. Complete your first year. Throw a party to celebrate! During stages 1 through 5, you may find yourself in a state of profound and confusing ambivalence. Studies show that during this period a smoker's positive feelings about smoking do not disappear, although the negative feelings increase considerably. It is only after you actually quit that this conflict begins to ease. One smoking researcher suggests you make a list of pros and cons of smoking. Chances are they will be fairly evenly balanced in stages 1 through 5. But after you have actually quit, the list of cons will get longer while the list of pros will get shorter and shorter—and gradually disappear altogether.

My advice to you guys is to stay away from smoking. Even if it is shisha. Smoking is bad for your health. That isn’t rocket science, and for an educated person to smoke just shows how ignorant he/she is. The other thing I wanted to mention is you gonna get kids one of these days and to quit smoking is hard as we all know. So, why smoke? Why create a problem for yourself? All for what? I know some people who smoke just to be cool?? In what way does smoking makes you cool?? Walahi it amazes me how naïve and ****** some of us can be. One my neighbors smokes like crazy, and she has young kids, I hate to go inside her house, you can smell the cigarette from her house.It pisses me off to see the type of environment she created for her young kids. This isn’t just about her health, but her kids as well. People think twice, before you start smoking…..you don’t know what you are getting yourself into. Those of you who smoke, do try to get help, it is never too late to change your life.As those of you who don't smoke, Keep it that way!!! Till later.

We SOMALI XALIMOZ are the prettiest women out there Kabish

Today I woke up happier than usual, and I don't even know why

Generally speaking I think Italian guys are by far good looking if we were to compare those races in terms of looks. But, some somali guys are fine looking as well.

Cadaan congratulations bro. I didn't even know you weren't Somali. Keep up the good work.

I went to Wal-Mart last weekend, so I can buy winter clothes for my baby sister. However, I found that Wal-mart is full of junk, honestly their clothes lack quality. So I ended up driving her to Sears, the one at Fairview mall. It might be more expensive than Wal-mart as I ended up spending close to 200 dollars. But, the clothes have quality, and that is what counts.

[24:26] The bad women for the bad men, and the bad men for the bad women, and the good women for the good men, and the good men for the good women. Basically, this ayah points out that If you are righeous and on the right path don't fear, Allah swt will reward you with someone who has the same values as you. However, if some men date and sleep around, they should not expect to get virgins..qof kula mid ah uun ayad heli. perhaps, it is time to improve your personal lifestyle to attain a good spouse. take care.

Mar dho bikini beach wedding baa jiraa maqli. lol u'r so right since somalis cant understand that a wedding has to be simple. now it is club-like weddings, so I wouldn't be surprised if tomorrow they have bikini beack weddingz

lol@HELICOPTER, are ppl losing their sanity Kool Kat have fun sis.

I am neither Omega nor Alpha woman. I don’t think one has to dominate over the other. It is better when two people are working together for the wellbeing of their family. I'm an Alpha female masquerading as an omega one. Val, you wanna trap one that wants to dominate you and teach him a lesson or two, How clever.

Umu Zak, buy him something that he likes, in terms of material things. Since, no one knows him better than you. But, I would really suggest going for holiday to somewhere exquisite just the two of you, nothing can beat that. p.s. I know you have a new born baby, dump him at your mom's house ...am teasing, I mean leave him under your mom's care, that sounds better. --------------------- I'm a survivor I'm not gona give up I'm not gona stop I'm gona work harder

My phone charger,I cnt find it anywhere you are that bored eh p.s. I can help you with your somali --------------------- I'm a survivor I'm not gona give up I'm not gona stop I'm gona work harder

Life insurance is interest itself; you are being charged to pay monthly fees, so you can get certain amount of money when you die. Even though you don’t know if you or your loved ones will actually take advantage of it. and you do know that you will eventually die (achieved) You will eventually die in your time ofcourse, but perhaps those you care about will die before you. Or, perhaps after certain time you won’t be able to pay for the insurance fees due to financial hardships, there is so many possibilities, no one knows about the future. So you are wasting your money in a way, it is like buying a car, even though your family might not use it. but then this is based on my understanding, I posted a shiekh's answer, I will look into it farther. and not to mention that life insurance is like lottery you are paying a small amount and hoping one day to get a huge amount...(like buying 10 dollar lottery and hoping to win millions)..who says you deserve that money? You didn't work for it?

I found this question asked in a islamic site... Is it permissible to take out life insurance so as to ensure that my family are provided for after I die? Please supply the evidence (daleel) for your response. Praise be to Allaah. Shaykh Ibn Baaz (may Allaah have mercy o­n him) was asked about life insurance, and he said: Insurance of o­ne’s life or possessions is haraam and is not permitted, because it involves gharar (buying/selling something where it is not known whether what is being bought/sold will actually be achieved/delivered, or in what specific quantity, thus putting o­ne’s money at undue risk to being lost) and riba (usury, interest). Allaah has forbidden all transactions that are based o­n riba, and all transactions which involve deceit, as a mercy to this ummah, and to protect them from that which may harm them. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “whereas Allaah has permitted trading and forbidden Ribaa”[al-Baqarah 2:275] And it was narrated in a saheeh report that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) forbade deceit. And Allaah is the source of strength. insha allah this would answer your question Abdi nuur.

Ilaahay ha u naxariisto abaha Bob, sabar iyo imaana adiga iyo ahalkaaga haka siiyo.

how things changed! they were no guys in my age group...u know wat i mean ..mature faraaxs. just kids and teenagers! those bagage-diaper-pants wearning hoodi wanna bees! kuwa ka daran miyay ahayeen lol, LA naf ma leh somaha....

watch this clip people, it is hilarious...specially the end part . "maku rabo wa ku nacay, naag sigaar gada marabo, naag shaah gada ma rabo, naag wareeg badan ma rabo khasatan adiga".. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qDVvaGlsB74&feature=related Enjoy!!!

Mirror Mirror on the Wall, Whose the Prettiest of them all? Why, AALIYAH416 ofcourse ----------------------- Love is like the truth, sometimes it prevails, sometimes it hurts.

CTV Toronto Mon. Nov. 19 2007 6:18 PM ET Mourners of one of the two teenaged boys killed in a car crash carry a casket out of Khalid Bin Al-Walid Mosque to a waiting car on Monday, Nov. 19, 2007, Mourners of one of the two teenaged boys killed in a car crash carry a casket out of Khalid Bin Al-Walid Mosque to a waiting car on Monday, Nov. 19, 2007, View larger image View larger image A teenage boy was driving the Mazda MX-6 when it veered off a road and crashed through a fence in Ajax, Ont. A teenage boy was driving the Mazda MX-6 when it veered off a road and crashed through a fence in Ajax, Ont. Teen charged in crash that killed two classmates toronto.ctv.ca Two teenaged boys are dead and their classmate is charged with criminal negligence causing their deaths after a single-vehicle accident in Ajax, east of Toronto. Witnesses told police that a Mazda MX-6 was travelling at a high rate of speed southbound on Audley Road, north of Taunton Road, on Sunday morning when it lost control and veered off the road. The vehicle crashed through a fence and rolled over several times, coming to rest in a field, Durham Regional Police said. A 15-year-old boy from Etobicoke, who was a passenger, was ejected in the crash. He was pronounced dead at the scene. Another passenger, a 15-year-old from Laval, Que., was also pronounced dead at the scene. The 14-year-old driver, a boy from Ajax, was treated for minor injuries and later released. Police have charged him with two counts of criminal negligence causing death. The accused, who cannot be identified under the Youth Criminal Justice Act, appeared in court via video on Monday and was to return on Tuesday for a bail hearing. Police said speed and driver inexperience are factors in the collision. Sgt. Paul McCurbin called it a "tragic" situation. The teens all attended a Muslim boarding school in Ajax. Classmates told CTV Toronto the driver had purchased the vehicle on Friday for $400. The two victims were laid to rest on Monday, one in Etobicoke and the other near Montreal. Mourners who gathered at the Khalid Bin Al-Walid Mosque in Etobicoke were shocked and saddened by the event. "It's terrible, it shouldn't have happened," said one man. "It's irresponsible for a 14-year-old to get behind the wheel," imam Adam Asse told reporters. Anyone with information regarding this collision or the activities of either involved parties prior to the collision are asked to call police at 905-579-1520 ext 5267. Anonymous tips can be made to Durham Regional Crime Stoppers at 1-800-222-TIPS (8477). With reports from CTV Toronto's Matet Nebres and Jim Junkin Please add these two 15 yrs old boys in your prayers, May Allah grant them pradise.