It is certainly a good idea to keep contact with your families, relatives, friends, and neighbors. Specially, to keep in touch w/ those who live on their own or have young kids. It is good to help them out whenever it is possible. Sometimes I go to my aunts’ and neighbors’ house just to give them a day off, since many of them take care of kids 24/7 and don’t have time for themselves anymore. Like the old saying goes “ you shall reap what you sow” today I am blessed to live with my large family alhmadu lilaah. But who knows about tomorrow? I might be living somewhere on my own? Or maybe I will have kids and I will need help? So it is nice of us to go out of our way to help our relatives and neighbors and those who are in need, and doing that good deeds for others Allah swt will take the time to never leave you in need, he will remember you, because you remembered others for his sake. p.s. Isseh it makes a great deal of difference whether you die alone, or in the middle of your family and loved ones.

I am glad he won, and his speech was great. All the best!!!

^^now you know what to do , marry those you are complaining from, and transform them to whatever you please...

^^lol things like that do happen actually, where girls get shipped b/c home, but ofcourse Ghanima is too old for that kinda stuff. Lets just say as a somali kid you gota behave if you are still in your teens at least around relatives lol

^^what do you think :rolleyes:

^^^Let me know when this particular movie comes out in DVD. It seems interesting.

^ Red is my favorite color, that is all lets just say red makes me stand out

cadaan given that you are married a wedding ring won't do. Stick with my red dirac and Gold. I am waiting for my b-day gift

Happy b-day Dahia sis

d/p

and here comes another Londoner wlc brother, and happy new yr.

Bob, may Allah (swt) facilitate your goals insha allah.

Riwayad this particular riwayad is hilarious and I couldn't stop laughing. Enjoy!!

^^I saw this clip before, but it never fails to make me laugh. masha allah

^^ nin guursaday maalinta hunguri iga galayo ma is nacay walaalay I think I can find a successful bachelor, as I got what it takes. I don't settle for less.

Someone has the hots for Somali ladies. You even took the time to wish them Happy b-day. How sweet of you Cadaan. I assume gifts are in order. aniga diric cas iyo dahab igu so talagal

Modesty calamada qiyaamaha ka mid ah maalinta reer badiya magaalo isku faanayaan. dadka dhaaf gacantooda wax hakaaga cunaane by the way, all guys eat in uncivilized manner not just Somali guys. Let's just say they have a huge appetite, they are growing men dear.

I have seen several Somali girls getting married to reverts. well, lets just say many of those who convert take their religion seriously, and follow it the way it should be. masha allah. That been said, many Somali guys are lacking culture and religion. Perhaps they should work on that aspects of their lives, and I shouldn't be just pointing fingers only at Somali guys. Since, the same applies to many Somali girls. I think it is hard to come by decent people nowadays, both men and women. Anyhow, the most important thing to look in a spouse is faith, that they are religious. Religion is blind to everything else including race.However, there could be some culture gap and that could be overlooked since religion is more important than culture.

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am actually 20 yrs old NG, but for the next five years am too young to get married. One doesn't just get married, you should be ready for the responsibility that comes with marriage. at least, that is my personal stand on this issue. lol@ posting here at 2 am...ouch

^^some of us are too young to get married , but that is a good advice. Jazakalaah marriage will be one of my 2013 resolutions, as for now lemme enjoy being Single

you can live w/ your parents till the age of 25, even it is better to move out as soon as you graduate from college/uni like around the age of 22. However, if you are taking care of your parents in old age, that is great. Masha allah. “Your Lord had decreed that you worship none but Him, and that you be kind to parents.” Remember, what goes around comes around, if any of you neglect their parents their time of need, you might be neglected when you are in the same position.May Allah (swt) make us those who take care of their parents in old age. Aamin.

^^there is nothing wrong w/ celeberating it, if your intentions is to thank Allah swt for all the blessings he had betowed upon you. In addition, asking him to make you a better Muslim and make this year a new beginning to improve your ibadah.

Amiin to your du’a Ismahan walaal. May we all strive to be better muslims in this New Year, and work harder than ever in our Ibadah so Allah (swt) can grant us good things in this life and paradise in the here after Insha Allah.

^^well said.