^ people gossip about everything. specially, when they are jealous ...so I wouldn't care abt their yapping say somalidu dhahdo afkii caytama ninkiisa ku yaala.. But, at least I had my dream wedding. Thus, am content with it. p.s. darbi istaaga ma kuwa shukaansi aroosyada usoo doonta ee albaabka is tuba kuwaas anba wa neecbahay...I guess you could have a security guard in the hall that won't let them stand around...you either sit your *** down or dance..sorry abt my lang.

^^walee caadi ma tihid. wara maxa ku hadashay ...

^^^^most likely what scares me most would be death. Given that I won't have a second chance to repent and change my life for the better. As they say life is your second chance. If someone kidnapped your spouse and a child, but you can only save one of them . Who would you save?

^^bariiska kama qadinayo ina adeer

^^^ The question is as silly as any question can get or so I think dadku makala maarmaan...abaha walalka ninkaga adeerka awoowga wa u bahantahay in ay noloshada qeeb ka qataan. Hopefully, that answers his question. Even though it was fairly common sense... am out.

Ghanima, I want a huge wedding, the best in the city insha allah and there wouldnt be a better wedding out there no way . It is every girl's dream...adiga laakin maxa ka qaldan naa sariirta dhinac qaldan ma kasoo toostay kidding On a serious note, I am sure everyone sees things differently. But, I don't see anything wrong with having an expensive planned wedding, where you get to show off with your man. But, that is how I see it, and those who just wanna move in without any bother of a wedding ...ii xareeso uun dhahaya wa meshooda .I respect your choice that is my two cent. wa salaam

^^ Guurarka Noocaas ah success ma noqdaan..i advice you in guriga xoolo ku qalatid..duco laguu duceeyo....Niikiyow Niikisoy beri ayey is furayaan That is a bit of generalization bro, having a huge wedding so you can have that one special night to remember wouldn't necessarily lead to divorce.

^^Jac, adiga iyo suaalhaaga mala yacniga ah. war gormaad kori :rolleyes:

^^^^maxaad lasoo tagantahay waryaa so adigi yidhi don't disturb? Ok. Ok. Here goes(Ahem..Ahem..cough): Q: What did R Kelly say when he was accused of child molestation? A: # My mind is telling me NOOOOOO! But my body, my Bodyy is telling me yeaaaah. I don't want to hurt nobody. But there is something I must confesssssssss! I don't see nothing wrong, with a little bump and grind #. [big Grin] NG, waxan ma maanta kaftan ka dhigatay? sidan miya aabo labo caruur ugu tahay? Ilaahow sahal!!

^^^caano iyo wiiiil

^^^ yada ku hagaajisanasa..somalida waxay dhahada ninku wa say naagtu ka dhigato lol (hopefully that is true)

^^aaah when is the wedding

^ I know you can get lot of thawaab and ajar for going out of your way to raise kids that are not yours. But, it is a huge responsibility raising kids in general, and specially raising kids that are not yours. Not something I intend to do, but those who do it May Allah swt facilitate your goals.

yeh am sorry Isseh as well, obviously we went off topic enjoy your Iftar Chubacka

It is only 11:20 am now

I pray that those who adopted them were Muslims, insha allah p.s. I am not too keen to adopt anyone, people already have enough issues with their own kids. Imagine someone repeatedly reminding you how you are not their biological mother.

^^^I wanted to go actually. But, God has his own plans. Maybe, it is haraam to attend.

^^Actually, I haven't went. I woke up with a cold and a headache. I called her and apologized. I feel so guilty!!!even though it is at 7:pm, I can still go if I get better. But, my mom told me to stay in since I am sick...you know am mom's lil girl. As we speak she is making for me "maraq"

^typical Somalis. The brother is trying to upgrade you. Be kind enough to say thank you

^^^dee mashquul iyo nus ayaan ahaa

Mu'minah lol the meher has to be a large sum of money eh? Personally, I don't care about the meher that much since it is between him and me, it shouldn't matter, it could even be a small amount. Sometime, I even heard the brother doesn't have to pay anything if his wife tells him not to, but no am not that nice But, the wedding? I have to have the best wedding in the city, it is competition ladies waa in la dhaha allah aaliya ma aragteeen nin ayeey heshay iyo aroos isku dhacaya.. Dabshid taas xagee ka heli walaalo? ma akhiro

^^no reception..no ring? masha allah, I admire you for that. I need a "indha sarcaad" wedding and a daimond to go with that...cant help it....

^^I was only teasing yaa ukhtii

I am not crazy abt shoes that much, I have like six pairs of shoes that includes my summer shoes. But, I love to buy head scarfs. I own like over 40 hijabs walahi. It is like I can't help it.....

^^ thank you guys. Totally appreciate your answers. I suppose since I was invited, I shall go. bt dont worry I wont beat myself.