^^ Haye walaal it would be nice to come to the uk insha allah. If am ever coming I will let you know

lol why are you guys being so mean to Jacaylbaro, I don't think he is older than 27. at least the way he writes makes him come across young. Allah yaclam.

^ I would like to come to UK sometime insha allah. From what I heard london rocks as far as the entertainment goes due to the large somali community and the somali events,certainly a good place to go for summer vacation. Apart from your housing conditions which ppl tend to complain abt I wont go on abt it, am sure u know it adiga kugu so dagi doona laakin hotel iyo waxaas ma aqaan ....marti wacan noqo

cadaan now go and buy your flight ticket, the brother wants to show you around

Today, am trying to catch up w/ all my readings. getting ready for mid terms. you know how it is and the weather is horrible, oh i hate winter w/ passion.Four more weeks til spring. can't wait.

^^ lol hell no, but I still love wearing high heels...you gota problem w/ that? who said high heels are only for short ppl by the way, I have a question I heard religiously speaking high heels are haraam? anyone knows anything abt that? this sister told me and kept saying how am trying to change myself, and how high heels are making me walk in a certain way (like am looking for attention or something go figure)? who has a daliil ?

^^not to mention the ground is icy, and slippery. But, yeh today I didn't wear my high heels so yeh am safe

oh this is certainly a beautiful love story. Thanks for sharing.

^^ the girl who posted this is married with kids? if so, masha allah May allah bless them. The main reason one should get married is to increase the muslim ummah. Ofcourse, some might rather raise less kids than others (like myself in the future insha allah I will like to have like three kids no more than that). I just don't think you can raise 10 kids and work and keep up with their needs. Anyways, It is up to you and how many kids you think you can handle. So long you raise your kids well and follow the diin guidelines. But, if someone goes I dont wanna have kids period? there is something nt right about that? they might have had a childhood that gave them that perspective? or like they are scared to be parents ? or maybe if you see so many kids on daily basis (oo washeen ciyaal suuq ah) doing all kinda things you think oh my god i cant see myself being a parent and what if he turns out that way u know...especially somali kids wa ka naxa qaar. Anyways, as a parent do your best and leave the rest to Allah swt. that is my 2 cent.

^yarka maxaad igu dirasa

^haa waan dheerahay mid dheer igu ducee, mid gaaban xagaan geynaya

Sister, I don’t think our religion allows men to take such liberty as to abuse their wives. That is not allowed, and in that circumstance she can ask for a divorce. I don’t understand why she was hiding for five years? Why not seek divorce with the help of the local imams? I think the Imams are right when they advised her to contact him, she should contact him and demand a divorce, she cant move on without a divorce ( she is still married regardless of being separated for 5 yrs). If he won’t give her a divorce on his own free will than the local imams should interfere and help her out, if not a court would do. she should take him to the court and am sure they would give him what he deserves. I would never advice a Muslim sister to go to the court and let gaalo get in her family affairs. But, if there is no other means to attain a divorce, she would have get it through some legal procedures. As for her family disowning her? I don't get it? she didnt contact her family after her marriage which is over 5 yrs? your family might disown you for all they want, they are your family. At the end of the day they are the ones who have your best interest at heart. Her family knew what she didn't know, they knew this man wasn't good enough for her, they saw through him (somalidu waxay dhahada qofka wayn waxaad ogeyn ayuu ogyahay). She should have never got married without their consent, that is religiously unacceptable. But, what is done is done let her go back to her family and start over and make peace w/ them. I hope this helps. May Allah swt make things easier for that sister. I will add her in my prayers. wa salaamu alaikum.

^ in that case have a party at ur house. That is if you got one lol

Cadaan you didn't have to put me on the spot like that. Everyone was hating on you, I was trying to make you feel better. So much for trying p.s. Pucca I second that, short men I can't stand either.

londoners help the guy out, dnt break his heart. The guy can afford a ticket finally, after long yrs of saving up grasshopper yarka guri uu kusoo dagu raba maad fahmin

abt three yrs ago, I only trim my hair once in a while bt I haven't cut my hair recently. question: What type of person are you among your friends? are you the clown the easy going individual, the one who everyone comes to when they are looking for a good time? or are you the serious type of person that every one count on when serious matter come across them? or are you a lil of both ...

looooooool @ pretend to have a wedding.. inama caadi ma tihid.

Happy birthday JB, Kulu sana wa anta bikhyr. nolol dheer iyo farxad ilaahay hakugu simo aaamin

I was just watching it on TV, tonight was Obama's night for sure. He was more sure of himself. way to go obama

I can not remember my last vaccination shot seriously. Alhamdu lilaah, am healthy apart from getting cold once in a while. And then I take natural remedy like lemons honey. Which I learned from my ayeeyo. She goes nothing beats eating healthy. Like her, I don't believe in taking medications. I guess it is better to put your faith in Allah swt and lead a healthy life style. Question Do you always have your day to day life planned? or are you the kinda person who does whatever whenever they feel like? Ofcourse apart from attending school and doing your homework on time ...I mean your life in general?

^^^I would choose a gun prolly. Question When you are making decisions abt different things in life,generally speaking do you do what feels right to you? or do you do what others think is right?

^^ I don't hate the individuals that smoke, rather I was referring to their bad habit that happens to influence them and those who live around them as well. For instance, my neighbor as i mentioned smokes like there is no tomorrow and he has young kids. That pisses me off, he is not only putting his health on the line, but his family's as well. I really don't see why people smoke? it is something that I can never comprehend with. why do something that you won't gain anything out of. To some extent, I can understand when young teens smoke due to peer pressure, teens are prone to peer pressure especially when they want to belong. However, when some one hits their 20s I expect better of them. Even, if they started when they were younger they could put every effort into stopping this bad habit. Some go how hard it is to stop it, but don't they know that their life will get even harder if they don't stop it now while they can. May Allah swt give us the strength to avoid anything that is harming us in anyway.

^^ye ladies stay strong don't let all that love nonsense to blind ur better judgment. dye ur hair blue for all you want, and he better say " honey is it me or are you getting more beautiful"

^I hope she isn't serious lol

^^ lol thanks for sharing that story it was hilarious. The lady shouldn't have been so hard on u, you kids were innocent anyways, coming back to the topic I guess it is better to refrain from anything that might be associated with qabiil. At this time qabiil is heated issue, and we should just avoid it all together. that is my 2 cent.