subahanlah@ kills your kids...that is a bit extreme isn't it? ...you have every right to hate a killer, especially one that killed ppl who are so dear to you. From a religious perspective someone who took a life should be killed. In that scenario I wouldn't even suggest forgiveness. However, if your mom/dad neglected you when you were younger and someone else raised you...then in that case you can forgive them. that is my 2 cent

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and usually people find pretty what they are use to or what their culture teaches them. For instance, African culture a woman has to have a good weight on her, on the other hand a north American culture you gota be slim. So, beauty does not have a concrete definition.

I think she should forgive her father and move on with her life. That hate she felt for her father wasn’t her fault of course since that emotion was fostered by her father’s actions. However, now that she is old enough and has learned her religion, she should know to forgive is what our religion teaches us. It is the key to progress. Allah swt will deal with her father for what he did, but she should move on and she should understand hating him will not change anything. I personally know a girl who her mom threw her out when she was two years old and was raised by her aunt. And, now she in her mid 20s and sends money back home to her mom consistently and keeps in touch w/ her. Subhanalah it takes a strong iiman to do that, and hopefully this sister is strong enough to be kind to her father even though he doesn’t deserve it.

^ Liban means blessed but perhaps you can even say blessing. not much of a difference...

lol@ 80 000...allah muxu kibray

Malika when someone says they are not practicing muslims, it doesnt mean they are not muslims.Merely they are not good muslims. Simply they are stating the fact that they don't practice it, and that is a good start. They are reflecting and realizing that they dont practice their religion? perhaps within time they will become better muslims. Rather than pretending they are good muslims and manipulating our religion. I know few people who go wearing hijaab is not a must, or doing this and that is not a must, and since it is not must I dont have to do it. And, still am a good muslim. So you see sister it is better to admit than manipulating what our religion expects.

I don't know why you need somali names. arabic names are awesome, lemme know if you need suggestions w/ arabic names

Underdog thanks hun I will let my mom know,am sure she would love it.

You should never start a relationship by lying. How can she trust him later on if she figures out he was lying at the beginning of their relationship....besides why would one pretend they have a first wife when they don't?

Intuition this story you posted is more than weird ...AKHAS Jacaylbaro ayaaba ku dhaama ma istidhi p.s. cant believe u guys are discussing this subject and trying to analyze this situation in depth as to how the couple lived their personal life? cajiib..the couple are in need of some serious medical help !!

naa somaliga waxan u baraya su odaygan mid somalia uga keensado

^^ am going to be his tutor Layzie, and hopefully within three months his somali will improve. Nothing else dee shukansiga sheegasid maxa waye

Che sounds like a deal Me, whats up with posting Che's post and not commenting on it???? Unless you know che well that you couldnt even imagine for the life of you that someone would take a peek just to see him lol

af somaligaaga caadi ma aha , in badan in wax laga badalo u baahanyahay....I will tutor you insha allah qalan iyo warqad horay usoo qaado

^^^Che your somali is horrible for a 30 something Hello shekadu inay dhaaftay modayey ma nugu celisay Faheema kan af carabi wali lama barin walaal

It is a fact that I wont have anything in common with some one in that age range in most cases. But, even if that was the case still that age gap will be an obstacle aint it ? lol@ jealous..Che looks like Cara is hitting on you. Get going

lool dnt get your hopes up...whether I have things in common with an old man or not doesnt make a difference

^ Che, am sure what I said doesn't apply to everyone. Cara lol say what?

common sense should tell you that age is important to some extent. Say I wanted to marry a 35 yrs old man just an example? what we gonna have in common? he will probably listen to Somali news at 7 in the morning or go to maqaahi? or things like that that make no sense to me Or, say you wanted to go to movies or play a favorite sport. At 35 he will be too old to do anything . So, do you see where am coming from? no hard feelings if you are in that age range, am referring to most 30 something

lol what ye mean?

Age is a number to some extent like say 10 yrs. More than that you won't have anything in common.

Ducaysane is he good looking fella? compared to who?

^^ generally speaking men are interested in pretty girls.

^^^I guess you are right farahs just wanna hook up w/ anyone who is pretty. They need to get a life

lol@ farah magnet ..what is that suppose to mean