^^ DD women bashing yaga jaceel bay ka tahay, anaga horay u fahmin moyee

^^do share that news...You can share with us we are known to be trustworthy

She got what she deserved....labaduba isma dhamaan !!

^Culture is important to some extent and there's nothing wrong with preserving your culture. However, if you marry outside your race that doesn't mean you still can't have your culture. You could still keep your somali culture and pass it to your kids. However, the most important thing is teaching your kids Islam and alhmadulilah from what I noticed converts practice their religion much better than us who born for muslim families. And, those sisters who choose to marry converts have my full support, and i disagree with your comment of discouraging ppl from marrying outside their race. I think you should rather encourage your sisters or even brothers to choose a religious spouse regardless of race, he/she could even be Somali...just don't emphasize more on the race than the religious practices. ------------------------ Treasure every moment that you have! Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is mystery. Today is a gift. That's why it's called the present!!

you don't have to agree and am not imposing you to agree with them....rather respect and refrain from name calling??...you are not respecting them when you are calling them desperate? you would be amazed at how some sisters who married converts live? how happy they are? how their husbands respect them and what not...so race has nothing to do with anything..you need to keep that in ur mind. Be more open minded and judge ppl individually without considering their race.

^^Mr peace learn to respect other people's choices.If a sister wants to marry black/indian/white it is none of your business but hers alone. So stay out of other people's lives...or maybe you have too much time in your hands...

^^ well am not sure you would have much of a say in who your daughter marries...but your comments and beliefs are fairly ignorant!!

^There is nothing wrong with having some pride.But, if you take too much pride in your accomplishments,then obviously you are taking much of the credit of what you have, rather then reminding yourself that it was Allah swt who blessed you. CC thanks for the reminders sis..and wlc back

^ for guys?? ...it's okey for anyone regardless of gender to marry outside their race. Religion is what determines someone's life choices, not culture. Keep that in mind dear.

How can you call someone desperate just for the reason of marrying outside their race? perhaps you guys should learn your religion in depth as religion transcends Color, and ethnicity. I know so many sisters who married outside their race and alhmadulilah yet live a good life. Where on the other hand so many somali sisters are divorced even though they married within their race? Of course the opposite happens as well. so don't think because you stick to your culture your life is gonna be a whole lot better.Ultimately, everything is about CALAF.

lol Pucca...

Happy Ramadaan... what will I do differently?? Go to tarawiix consistently inshallah, and just spend a great deal of time worshiping allah swt...

This is exactly why things are going worse in Somalia. Criminals get out on bail, why shouldn’t they face the consequence of their own actions? Otherwise everyone will just take other people’s lives knowing their family will later pay compensation. Don’t pay a cent to save someone who doesn't deserve it...as Layzie mentioned above use your money in more worthwhile projects! It doesn't matter that this man killed someone in cold blood, he's your tol and must be defended rightly or wrongly. Sad, bt thats the mentality most somalis have, to defend their ppl regardless of whether they are wrong or right. And, that's the very reason we have civil war today..

May Allah swt have mercy on sister S. and grant her the highest level in Jannah! thank you Malika for the reminder, we are nothing but human beings and we tend to sometimes forget the main purpose of life which is worshiping allah swt. As I was reading ur post, I got so emotional to a point I had tears in my eyes. But, tears will not get us anywhere what we indeed need is to prepare for death and be ready for the day where no one can help us (family, wealth etc) except our deeds. This ayah clearly sums up what I mentioned above... "The love of desires has been made beautiful to people such as women, sons, piled up mounds of gold and silver, branded horses, cattle and farm land. Those are the provisions of this life and with Allah is the best place of return." [Qur'an Al 'Imran: 14] subhanalah wealth and families leave you at the steps of ur grave. Ofcourse, we have to work for our dunya and study hard/work hard to land the good job we all dreamed about. But, not at the cost of forgetting our akhira. so, inshallah lets balance ourlife. Again, thank you for ur powerful reminder sis jazakalahu khyr!

Lovely pics

^^w/ the rate he's going he might as well ask for rent

am muslim sister and proud alhmadulilaah. However, that isn't my only purpose in life. so change ur backwarded opinion Ofcourse, if I ever have kids I would give them my undivided attention and love.

^^why do we have to talk abt children,grocery shopping or cleaning for that matter...

lol@ beat me in a playstation game..is that how you measure if someone has maturity or not?? I would think the reason they beat you on it is because they spend most of their time playing games...

in the spirit of our new thread ...

NG it seems to me you don't have good relationship with your kids. Somehow you don't see them as kids, do you like converse with them like adults lol...

lol NG yeh I do cook ..so no need with the sarcasm. And, do you make the tea with the coffee maker?..I usually make it on the stove...I don't see the difference. anyways, why do you want ur lil girl to serve you? when you can serve urself and let the lil girl enjoy her childhood..

NG ...she shouldnt go close to the stove let alone cook anything..tea or otherwise. Now leave the lil girl alone, and cook ur darn tea

Malika loooool you could say I could relate to ur lil one

^^ lol @ stuff thrown behind the sofa hahaha...at least she's helping you mashallah.How old is ur lil one? four?