I would not stay with him nor raise his child. Of course that child is innocent but why should I raise that child. am sure they can find someone who's related to the child.Or, the guy can marry again and raise that child. Either way, it has nothing to do with me. wuu nasiib badanyahay hadaan aayar bacdiisa madow banaanka ugu dhigo If she was a wife, then wife #1 has to raise the kid. Underdog, says who??? that baby ada dhalooday ..adaana korsanaya...the 1st wife has nothing to do with it. miyeey kula dhashay ..isma odhan!! tan kale she said something about hiding it?? like the guy got married without his 1st wife knowing. In that case who gives meshuu rabo ilmahiisa hakala dhoco. On the other hand, say the guy divorced me and married another wife and then that wife died? and say in that case there's no one else out there in the whole wide world that can raise the child like the guy has no relatives..the 2nd wife has no relatives...then I might raise the child on my own. Even though its highly recommended that the guy marries again and raises his own child. After all I am mere human and I might end up mistreating the child or maybe the child will think am mistreating simply cuz am not his/her biological mom. Really its very complicated issue, but people are better off raised by some one who is related to them.... salaaam

I haven't went to gym for the past one month or so. Inshallah I need to start again. Chocolate I agree with you I always need someone to drag me there or I won't be consistent. It's always more fun if someone is there with you.... salaam

^lol Orange wlc thru.....now lets hear what you have to say abt this matter.

From what I understood you rented a wrong movie and things turned bad from there. Well sis if as you said it was actually a mistake, then as chubacka said pray salaatu istikhaarah, and ask God to show you a way out. But, your guy after three years of a relationship should have known you better and showed a bit more trust than that. But, we are all human beings and am sure he was shocked under the circumstance. Just flip the situation and imagine how you would have reacted. Things would inshallah cool down and he will come to his senses. But, you also need to be more understanding and don't act as if he's possessive, this is not about that. The man knew you for three years and wanted to marry you. For you to be his wife and the mother of his kids. And, lets say after this situation you lost couple of points there, you just have to take it slow and tell him the whole thing was misunderstanding.And, Allah swt doesn't forget those who remember him, keep praying.... salaam

Ilaahay dhulki nabad haka dhigo.amiin salaam

Ng lol yeah she will no doubt to that. Hey cynical sis...so dhowoow

^^lol@ short pointless news. You must be bored Hello trollers..... A& T mashallah do name her Malika, that's a beautiful and unique name. May Allah swt bless her for you... Malika I don't think there's such thing as God mother. But, in islam we are all one big family, so am sure you can still play the role of a second mother without taking that title "god mother". And, I was told in somali culture usually that the baby will take after the first person who enters the birth room. In terms of personality. But, I guess that's nothing but rubbish.

July 4thna calanka America coloradiisa dhar eh ee xirtaan...Ilabaxnimo meeshaasey kudhamaatay nooh... loooooooooooooooooooool

To me being a woman of faith means to meet the basic requirements of Islam. That starts with imaan, to believe and then to act through praying my 5 prayers on daily basis, fasting in Ramadan, paying zakat, and going to hajj (sadly am yet to pay a visit to Hajj...inshallah I will).Those are the basic, but Islam transcends those acts and has important role in every aspect of our lives. The best thing about being a woman of faith is being able to find answers in whatever issue or problem that you are confronting. Faith is a gift that Allah swt has bestowed upon us, and we should be very grateful through practicing it to the best of our ability. May Allah swt bless us and guide us to the right path. salaaam

Kool Kat happy belated birthday to your daughter. Mashallah you are definitely blessed. Motherhood is priceless. Ilaahay haka dhigo tii ku anfacda. salaam

lol@ anyone can call including the sheydan salaam

Abu lol yeah okey. Egal I was messing around. salaaam

when I said it's not big deal,I meant your iron level can easily come back to normal.All you have to do is eat food that has enough iron in it, and the supplements along with it. inshallah all the best. salaam

^ went to the library to study for my upcoming exam. I haven't done anything special today. so yeah the rest of you who had romantic dinners ...do share and be in detail..like how he open the door, how he took your chair out, how he hold yur jacket for you...and so on and so forth looooooool shaqa la'aan baa ii haysa bal ii shekeeya....coffeena waan soo shubtaye ---------------------- Proud Somal! S!ster

Naxar, well said brother. It's time that you folks realize that we somalis need to unite for the good of our people. This government is just it, I feel it. Why can not the rest of you? check out this inspiring wadani song, Xagee Soomaliyeey... ilaahay ka baqa oo wixi dadkiina u dan ah ka fakara walaalayaal! salaam

^^ so you gave up on lascanodi brothers? shakes head. All somali men are the same to me regardless of where they hail from. Khalid, lol you people took me seriously.I was merely kidding.

looool Haneefah haahey saas weeye, intaan dirica tafta gashto ayaan kuwa ka cutesan raadsan doona

lol haneefah I heard he's taken,so its pretty too late for that. But, thanks for offering me..you're too sweet Haneefah I just saw the clip in youtube, I didnt see the whole thing. btw I love this song..

I saw this one before... as usual Guled looks cute salaam

Buuxo I have iron defeciency too. I don't think its that of a big deal. Mainly, whenver am studying i see myself getting tired pretty fast so I did a blood test and it turned out I have low Iron level. So for the past few months i was taking iron supplements..it kinda helped. But, as someone mentioned before it's all abt the diets and the food intake. I skip a lota of meals especially breakfast when am running to my early classes so that had its effect I guess. As they all said eat healthy, and exercise. Inshallah it will work out. And, someone mentioned earlier it's all about what you believe sometimes and I agree with that statement...adaa xanuun isku noqon kara hadad amintid in aad xanuun qabtid. Take it easy inshallah and take care of your overall health... salaam

^I have seen few clips of those. People in the uk are far more cultured than us. mashallah! salaam

Jacaylbaro lol why would you give your number out just like that? I would think you would at least know a bit about the person before you drop your number. It is strange though that he has enough guts to call you yet not disclose who he is.... salaam

am just studying for my examsssss... so Jacaylbaro what's happening...bal wax yar nooga sheeg where's the special place in hargaisa that you gona take your wife??

Happy V. day

Sadly, that's what happens when society loses morals and parents don't set boundaries for their kids. salaam