sister100 you gotta be stronger than this girl, why did what few guys said in a forum make you decide against marrying somali guys. Somali guys are not the same. Get to know the one you liked. In fact on a forum many people are not themselves, they just say things for the fun of it. They are not necessarily serious.... take care sis... salaam

How can you have doubts with God's creation...??if thats not enough I don't know what is? I think it would be nice idea to watch many converts and the reasons behind why they converted and how the Quran makes so much sense and doesn't contradict unlike other religions... youtube it.... watch this one and many others....alhmadulil ah....if christians or people of other faith are seeing the truth. How can we muslims doubt the Quran for a sec. Subhanalah!! salaam

Sabriya, don't be so naive. Think before you speak, please. and how am I being naive? can you point it out?

sister we had topics like this one that we discussed how divorce rates are higher within the somali community. Today they are all just being defensive since they think your non somali. I guess sort of like we can talk abt the shortcomings of our community but you can't kinda thing salaam

lol@ maqayad aan isla furanee.wax maqayad aheen horta somalidu mataqana

I know its okey to pray for him. My aunt who passed away several years ago may allah have mercy on her soul used to always bring all of us together and make us read quran for our grandparents or anyone who died in our family..and just muslims out there. we would come together cook a huge dinner read quran and what not..so that's fine. I don't doubt for a minute that people can gather together and pray for the dead person/ppl. But, to celebrate? that's different I assume. salaam

owwwwwwww Amina you'r so sweet sister... I need to learn how to make rice in different ways too...

heestan wa hees micno ku fadhida fufu sis or was it a brother..either way Najmudin thanks walaal for the clarification..how you been btw? salaam

^may allah have mercy on him..bt isn't haraam to celebrate for someone who died so long ago..? salaam

marinating steak is usually for the purpose of making it have flavor, but I suppose it does make it softer. salaam -------------------- ----- maamooy dhib aa iga soo martee miisaan xaq ah la ma magi karee minankaa janada mowla ha ka dhigo Aabe macaana mowla ha ka dhigo

^ shiekhul kuli maxa la dhaha talow.. -------------------- ----- maamooy dhib aa iga soo martee miisaan xaq ah la ma magi karee minankaa janada mowla ha ka dhigo Aabe macaana mowla ha ka dhigo

his songs are inspirational, his lyrics are full of meaning and always reflecting on the struggle in Somalia or Africa. The man is a true Somali.. salaam ps. WLC TO SOL..is it me or are many people joining this website *bal yaa so xayisiiyey lol*

^for the fun of it lol

I love sabayad mixed with banana and honey too...bt am not sure if one would eat it with the company of anyone. It just doesn't look right (its mushed up like baby food)..LOL salaam ps. I enjoy rice with stake ...we make it often.

I agree that there is higher divorce rate within the somali community at least if we compare it to the pakistani community. salaam

K'naan T I A (Spoken) I hope you got your passports, and vaccine shots. [Verse 1] I take rappers on a field trip any day They never been opposite real clip anyway I know where all the looters and the shooters stay Welcome to the city we call Doomsday. When niggaz is just fried chicken like Tuesday Oh you from the hood huh, who say? My Nigerian niggaz would call you ***** My Somali niggaz are quick to grab the uzi Around here we only bumping Fela Kuti Tupac, or Bob Marley, Lucky Dube. So we don't really give a **** about your groupies This Is Africa, Hooray. T.I.A. (Hooray) T.I.A. (Hooray) T.I.A. (Hooray) It means, This Is Africa (Hooray) [Hook] You don't know how hard it is here The streets is tricky in these parts here You don't know how hard this is here The streets need this shit here You don't know how hard it is here The streets is tricky in these parts here You don't know how hard this is here The streets need this shit here [Verse 2] I walk rappers through the Killa woods any day They never been opposite real goons anyway I know all the tricky sticky icky alley ways Welcome to the continent of Holidays (Africa) Where Holidays quickly turn to hell days Stars fall quicker than box of shell case No Bill Gates, No PCs Why you cats debating, acting and faking these days I deliver what they need like milk crates I learned from the deadly streets no regrets And I wasn't ever looking for street cred But these streets bred me to be street safe It's no secret we know how to squeeze lead But the Pre-set is not to have to squeeze it Used to be at peace but now we using T-Shirts And it reads RIP cause the peace dead When I walk through the slums like (Nomane?) Little children say K'naan (Bumaye ?) The rap game just got itself a new day This is Africa, Hooray. T.I.A. (Hooray) T.I.A. (Hooray) T.I.A. (Hooray) It means, This Is Africa [Hook] You don't know how hard it is here The streets is tricky in these parts here You don't know how hard this is here The streets need this shit here You don't know how hard it is here The streets is tricky in these parts here You don't know how hard this is here The streets need this shit here

lol good one sister

ok you two cool it down. I think qalbiadeyg likes you sister and he was trying to get your attention..this is just sweet talking went the wrong way lol..be easy on him salaam p.s. glad to hear that ur proud pakistani, and am proud somali....now lets drink to that (drink coffee mind you)

within the somali culture we have tribe issues, like hey we prefer your man to be from so and so tribe. Forget other race. But, alhmadulilah so many families became more religious and try to look beyond one's tribe, race. it wont happen over night but people are changing now and coming to understand that deen is all that matters. so I can understand where your parents are also coming from. Inshallah as long as you bring someone's whose decent its all good. even though i can understand your parents want someone who can speak the same langauge and understand their culture better as oppose to a muslim man from another culture/race. But, as long as you get a muslim man whose practicing his deen the right way regardless of his color, that's priceless.. salaam

^am glad to know you don't want to rush...keep it that way. At least till you'r a bit older, cuz ur the same age as my second youngest sister and just looking out for u...

^ I think most pakistanis are very cultured, even though somalis are cultured many are a bit easy on it. I am wondering what your parents would say if you wanted to marry another race? my afgan friend's brother married a pakistani girl and both of their families made a huge deal about it. even though i personally think afganis and pakistani are close culturewise (or maybe not)...so am just wondering what your parents would say when you bring a somali dude? ofcourse all the families are not the same...and theres no need to generalize..just wondering? salaam

sister your only 17 and you'r thinking abt marriage? theres nothing wrong with it, but I would say you are in a stage where you should be focusing on your education and letting yourself grow and learn more about life in general. just my advice..you'r too young to be thinking about settling. salaam

loool che ...asiankeeduba kama darayo ilaahay ha u sakhiro ameen!! mid burcona haduu u joogo taasna wa khyr.. wixi u joogaba barako iyo bashbash...

naa mesheena cagaaran in aad iska joogto ayeey aheed laakin ilaahay abaartaa haku barakeeyo

Che lol who knows I just might sometime in the future..