Aaliyyah
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he could have married another wife. I think they were both insane when u think of it.... koolkat aduunka ma dumar baa ka dhamaaday markuu intuu mid guursado sugayu intey u ogolaanaso...shekadu ama wa been ama labaduba caqliga biya kaga jira... enough said I dont want danbi lol salaam
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^^best of luck...
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^May Allah swt bless you with four wives that don't mind sharing..ameen dheh
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What in the world?, you ripped that figure straight from a study on African American single mothers and have applied this on the Somali community. Why? I have no clue what you speaking of? African American? this was just an approximate number I wrote based on how many single moms I know...and its unfortunate situation within the Somali community.
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this touched my heart, and if it doesnt touch ur heart, then you are beyond any help. salaam
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I would say about two years is enough to get to know a person. I myself don't believe people who get married after seeing each other for two months...it doesnt look logical to me. Even though somali waxay ku maahmaahda ninkaad habeen ku baran waydey waligaa ma baratid...hadana taaso saas ee tahay hadana I think its good to take your time..thats like 2 years...those who go out for four years shekadooda kama war hayo lol and never makes sense unless they are waiting to graduate from uni which sounds alright. But, 2 years? sounds logical? definitely agree with you. Go with your guts walaal. And, sometimes you cant make rules you will just have to see if that person is the right person and it might take less time frame. ibti you made life so simple...its not that simple..10% beele ...if one's marriage doesnt work and they are left with kids..I would think your life is gonna be living hell...ppl mostly think hey what does it matter i can just move on, even if the mother moves on ....the dad missing will have immense impact on the kids..and somali kids in the diaspora are good example..abt 70% of them are being raised by single moms...and they are lacking descipline, education, and obviously religion...just my thoughts... my 2 cents
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Hassan I agree with you mashallah that shiekh must have been very compassionate. I can understand wen a man wants a second wife cuz his first wife can't have kids. That is justfied. (but xataa anigu hadan that situation ku jiri lahaa hypothetically speaking I would set him free..i dont share period but at least at that kind of situation I would not hold a grudge) Maxatiri loool yeah she did everything for him and he took her for granted...aduunku wixi n-cas ah buu ka faaideestaa.. salaam
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^and whats the benefit of it? Dont be offended am just wonderin...
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funnyyyyyy walahi. Thanks Ng. ^LOL,I think most faraxs are maskimiin wallahi,the way they get ordered around..wabaa kaa naxee this Warsame. you need to order him around....otherwise faaido muxu leeyahay
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On a serious note, I think this dhaanto is by abdi koronto and fiska. It is awesome! Actually it is by abdi koronto and fiska. you are right. u guys r all wlc. am a fan of both abdi koronto and fiiska.. this particular song comes to mind by koronto,
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this song is for all somalis, specially those who still have grudges against at what happened in the past 20 years... wixi dhacmay wuu dhacmay maxay waxaasi u dhacay ha dhihin waxaasi wuu dhacay dhacadada xalay dhalaan ka noqo... wixi kugu dhacay iloow... its time to think positive and think abt how u can contribute n help ur ppl.. enough is enough people... salaam
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good to know u like it...
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In my opinion, well you know its my opinion and am not gonna force on anyone else. But, am 110% against polygamy..and not to mention, like he was divorced man and she married him right??.. with me thats a big no-no...nin naag hore soo furay wuxuun baa ka qaldan..its just my opinion and I would always assume that he would also walk away from me (even thou that is not the case always am sure). So i would never be in that position and this story kinda justifies my position, the man in the story actually ended up marrying another lady...?? and the thing with raising the ex wife's kids? I think she should get those kids back to their mom who u said the kids were snatched from her? a mother deserves to raise her kids. Anyhow, if he isn't supporting her much? and he basically goes off with another wife? what is he good for? I definitely think she should divorce him and get a man who will help her out financially, and emotionally. I dont understand these shiekhs who always say you are going to hell? over everything?? lol no offense walahi bt odayashan yaa wax so baray...a man who is not supporting his kids? who married another wife? if the woman in this story cant handle that and doesn't feel the marriage is productive then she has full right to divorce him..and I remember reading a story abt a lady who divorced her husband cuz she wasn't attracted to him? she told the prophet whenever she sees other handsome man she feels that she married mid attractive aheen ......and the prophet scw told her its ok to divorce him......so if a marriage is not productive in many ways? in this case clearly he walks away and doesn't make money? maxa lugu falaya? naa bacda madow u tuur ku dheh balayo..and no she wont go to hell she will find a good man who will be there for the kids hope that helps salaam
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^lol sorry then, I was just looking out for your health...
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second hand smoking is even worse than smoking, at least stay away from them when they are smoking, if not get better friends..as they say your friends say a lot about you and your values.. salaam
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I am in love with this song.... let me know if u guys like it.. salaam
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lol we are clearly going off topic. lets close the subject and not deviate from the thread's topic... have a nice day walaal.. salaam
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^^Smart lady! URL eh. please erase the quote, oh my eyes oh dear lord My inner being (mind)took me elsewhere do forgive me. [big Grin] EDIT: this is so uncool what else could you be talking about? bal yuu sheko xariir ugu shekeenaya inankan.. stop making me feel guilty for what I said
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lool look above I edited it. I know you were raised in tanzania... mashallah somali meelkasta way tagtay am not sure there is city out there xabad somali ah laga so heleen oo ku soo luntay haha
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Haven of Peace "A caring place for tonight; hope, support and change for tomorrow". Logo A Shelter for Women & Children Since 1959 LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL I am sure this wasnt what you were referring to Edit..oh never mind found it, dar e salaam in Tanzania salaam
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^wheres that?
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^ loool ceeb waryaa.
