Malika lol girl no need to apologies troll away. salaam

Sayid none taken. Good luck with your thesis and try to channel your frustration elsewhere...bal quran akhriso salaam

^ Sayid, seems to me u are the only one who is sexually frustrated clearly you missed the topic's title. And, che please open another thread answering sayid somali's above question as it is irrelevant to the thread's title. many thanks.. salaam

Afrikaay hurudooy - Magool...

Haatu af caytamay ninkiisa ku yaala somali ku maahmaahda laakin wa caadi shekoyinkan oo kale somalidu nimankoodu kama helaan so lets hope he said that out of love lol... Allamagan to say 97% I think thats just generalization. How about nowadays the divorce rate within the somali community? thats high itself even thou the two people are from the same culture and have the same language and deen. so at the end of the day like Juxa said it comes to the person rather than the culture. salaam

^looool ma ka run baa hada in cunta yar uu dhameen kari wayey gabadha lagaga furya...sheeko caadi ah ma aha Haatu lol walaal it is alright everyone is entitled to their opinion. That is the beauty of life. nuune, Dumarka don't matter ninyaho. Ama carab ha noqdaan ama Somali. Hadii aad ciraaqiyaad guursatid, dee waxa la odhan doona "waa geesi ciraaq weeraray o xabbad ka dhacay". Lakin anago miyaan ogalaan karna ino ciraaqi xabbad naga dhaco? Xaashaa.. [big Grin] lol@ geesi ciraaqi weeraray...hilarious one! ps: your friend is allowed to marry whoever she wishes to, ilaahow jini uu ahaadaa provided her parents are agreeable to the idea, be supportive friend, no one marries dhaqan/culture, you marry a person. Juxa I agree with you that at the end of the day it all boils down to the person. But, I think if the family is supportive it makes life a lot easier. Where if the family doesn't accept you it can complicate the issue but if your love is strong you can make things happen regardless of what you encounter with along the way. Also I agree with you that acceptance comes after marriage but so does love. cuz the person is there for you both in good times and bad times, and you sacrifice things for one another. So, in other words shekadii la isku shekeenayey before marriage is tested then..hadal haan madhan ma buuxsha somali dhahdaa so when the person walks the walk then love is proven. ma 2 cents salaam

MY Space- Shannon Matesky I love this girl's poem..so trueeeee!!

looooool chubacka..walee kursiga baan ka dhici gaadhay thats downside of facebook random adds? wen i had ma fb account I honestly never added anyone that I didnt know well... I mean you meet someone once and they go do you have facebook? thats like the second question after whats ur name? give me a break.. also another way of avoiding random adds could be removing your pic from the profile pic. Usually people wont add you if you just some random pic there.. anyhoww...my advice to you..naa meelna ha aadin if you cant remember the person lol... stay safe hun.. salaam

I agree with ibti on this theres no way you gonna know if someone is cheating on you or not. and this has nothing to do with the man being weak or vica versa the woman being soft. laakin sa tidhi ilaahay nama ag dhigo dadka nocaas..qofku haduu ilaahay ka baqayo haduu qofka rabin oo guursatay oo iska fasaxaya... this kind of stories scares me thou..why does anyone wanna cheat on their husband or wife..ofcourse this scenerio is qof gaal ah. But, am sure the samething happens with muslims. It is sad too..honesty is the best policy. If you dont like ur husband or wife set them free..mesha rabtid marka ka qaraabo.. salaam

thanks ibti ...I was never away just posted less bt good to know u missed me...*gives ibti cyber hug* as for ur book lemme know when its published.please ama be your first customer..I really wanna know why you chose bangali aduunka wax niman ka tira qaba hahahha.. and using ur husband's money is not saqajanimo but definitely a man paying for a date or accepting a gift from someone you are not married to is definitely saqajanimo. But, if you are married he has to pay for everything thats just your God given right..man its a blessing to be a muslimah..You keep your money in your bank account and keep emptying his account waa caadi..hadii kale maxa laga guursaday waxa Stoic lool that was funnnnny.... raaqi yuu ka yahay wiilka, reer Tikriit, mise reer Umm Qasr, soo kala caddee, then I can add my few sunuud in the qandi looool Nune...what difference does that make?

ibti if u married a somali dude you would have used his account and saved your money. Thats too bad hindi baad guursatay..err I mean bangali lol.... salaam

ibti lool oh so u were talkin abt when u were in india ma bad girl I am multitasking here.. anigu runtii dalalka kale kuma dheereeyo. Haduu somali noqon wayena wuxu noqonaya nin cad oo soo muslimay.. hindida, indhayarta iyo carabti dhaqan adag bay haystaan..xita yagu haday haysan ehelkooda haysta.... imagine i married bangali dude like you..i can only imagine islaan bangali ah oo hoyadiis oo indhaha igu gubasa? bal horta kawaran dadkisa? how did u get by? wax noga taataabo? salaam

^at time you forget to call him for days???...bal ilaahay waxbu na tusay your bangali husband ma Bangladesh buu daganyahay lol naah girl I think everyone should be judged on individual basis. I must have misunderstood your post.so your man must be an exceptional mashallah. You lasted 2 years somaha marka inshallah you will last a life time.. laakin wa sheko laban waxaad bangali ku doratay..but thats a story for another day lol... salaam

lol you said he is control freak..so yes if that is the case you need to divorce him..naa cagahaga wax ka dayo... and my friend's iraqi guy grew up here..he is not cultured. so that is the difference lol.. haa wa iga daacad....duca iyo barako waxba kama taraso 2 years of marriage if you are calling him control freak on the second thought your second last post you wrote how u manage to blackmail him so it seems you get by regardless of his controlling nature... haye bal waan iskaga ducaynaya

lol ibti bangali iyo hindi wa isku kay mid...so if hes control freak maxa wali ku ag dhigey mid somali ah oo dhagta jiidjiidid maad iska raadsatid oo marba bac madow aad banaanka u dhigtid and no this is not about me if it was me I would say it...I have no need to down play it... But calaf waa calaf and my friend seems to like this guy so inshallah I hope things work out for her.. Che lool@ welc to my side inay caadi aheen waan u jeeda af carabi waaye salaam

^true cade. Aaliyah..I understand "love after marriage" part but ho w do expect to land your mate first? I am not saying a guy and a girl cant talk and go eat casho or what not as long as there is no physical involvement. All am saying is jaceelka runta ah wa marka labada qof is guursataan oo markaas ayaa runta la tabanaay. When someone am not married to tells me he loves me?? what is it based on?? few dinners here and there?? give it a break that is not love..at least to me. Another thing is that you mentioned their educated and want to get married, this alone shows they can control their cultural side. They have to know eachother properly to decide to get married, sax? Hales I dont think I wanna share any more personal info of my friend or the guy she chooses to marry. But I absolutely agree with you the girl I speak of she is not too cultural and neither is he so am assuming they can work things out inshallah I just hope the families become more cooperative. Sometimes when your families are not happy they increase the tension.. Ibti do u need glasses this aint about mee lool.... but thanks for the advice. adigu hindigaaga xagaad isla marasaan .. salaam

Che when I said its not religiously acceptable, I was referring to having a marriage without the parents' consent... As for ur other point, I don't believe in arrange marriage all I said was no one needs to fall for sweet talking and equate it to love. Real love only comes after marriage. C & H well put.

^lol@ maxa nogu so sheegi weydey..I don't believe thats religiously acceptable. anyhooow I would think shes mature and educated and wouldnt do such thing..qof caqli leh oo mature waxaas kuma dhoco... seeker I agree with you. What does love has to do with anything... salaam

I believe she told me he grew up here. But, what does that have to do with anything? do you mean to imply that Arabs who grew up in their homelands are strong in their culture? salaam

lol@ Alia and Ali Baba have ring to it..Adam xagee shekadii ka tuurtay hahahah 2+2 I agree with you mashallah.... Inshallah they will find all the happiness in life. I think if the person holds the rope of faith waxba ma xumanayaan... salaam

have you read the book? summarize the key points. I will def. give her if its worth it 2+2 if you want someone who is not deep in their culture ma umaleenayo in aad indha yar rabtid, they have a strong culture.lol just my opinion They are both educated and have careers established so they are compatible yes... but the question is which one do you prefer culture or religion? will overlooking your culture bring difficulties in your life??.. salaam

Clearly if two people are getting married they do love each other..but then again what is love?? but thats a subject of its own but ma opinion is real love comes after marriage everything else is bahbaha iyo sheeko. How do you think you love someone you have never lived with??..like you have to live with the person 24/7 and learn them inside out and then if you put with each other and accommodate one another then I guess you love each other lol..inta kale casho la is geenayo iyo la qosqoslayo jaceel ma aha...its just drama.But, if I go on and on we will get to another subject so lets just leave it at that.. my question is whats ur thoughts on interracial marriages?

Happy 67th anniversary of SYL. Don't worry walaal this is just a phase, we will get through it. ilaahay somali dhibta haka qaado midnimo ha ku so celiyo.. salaam

what are your thoughts on this subject? what are the benefits? what are the short comings? A somali friend of mine is getting married soon to an Iraqi guy. she asked my advice on this and I told her that if he is religious thats all that counts at the end of the day. But, she might face that cultural obstacles. Given that they came from different cultures. Not to mention their families are not all that supportive of this union which might even complicate the issue farther. what are yur thoughts??!!! salaam

^mashallah Blessed. It is true that if the shiakh is really good he will inspire you to change. cuz we are humans and we all have our shortcomings and in need of a reminder cuz at times ppl get too caught up with the dunya. and ur wlc sis. Karl I think the shaikh recovered, but if that is not the case may allah swt give him speedy recovery and good health. Shaikhs like him are needed in the muslim ummah. salaam