Tawakali 3ala Allah, Aaliyah. Ehelkuba caruuraha way xumeeyaan... Tawakali 3ala Allah..! lets not forget that before you put you trust in allah you need to tie the camel (ie avoid hiring maids and strangers to care for your house and kids).. waa runta blessed ehelku way xumeen kara caruurta laakin at least raad ba jira iyo cid aan u racayo hadi wax dhacaan bal aduu iisheeg jariyad haday caruurta meel ka tuurto cidaan bari waydiinayo wa suaale haye guys we will agree to disagree... laakin jaariyad fican hadad iskusoo hubsado oo aad bari ka kaaftoondo isoo refer garee loool..bari haday wax igu sameesanasa adaa ka masuuul ah laakin LOL... Don't compare yourself to a mother just yet.. Hawl maad arag.. marka shekadu wa habar fadhida lagdin la fudud lol....khalaas waan ka baxay shekadan. Stay tuned when I get some kids if any of my ideas change loool salaam

Inshallah I intend to go back home in the near future. But, that does not mean I am going to hire a maid that type of life does not interest me. I am used to doing my own things and love it in fact tan kale I have millions of relatives who don't mind serving meee..so why does one need a maid markaa gabadho reeraha gurigaaga keeni kartid iskoolna ku dari kartid yacni ka bixisid waxay u bahanyihiin marka waqti hayaana ku caawin karaan waa hadad rabtid cid ku caawisa..inkasto maba ka helo qofkale in aan u diro shaqadayda.. salaam

^waxaan la jeclahay kuwa aan dhali doona ayaan ilma kasta oo somaliyeed la jeclahay ..isnt there a hadith that say love for your brother what you love for urself But, at the end of the day my advice is just words...everyone makes their decision regarding their personal life. laakin nasixada wa la isku leeyahay bas wa ka baxay shekadan.. salaam

Blessed lol maya taas wa diday meshaan joogo kuma xidhna anu maba ku amini karo qofkale caruurteeda ama gurigayga... Libaahe I don't think anyone knows who they are hiring. How abt that story I posted in Sol the other day where a lady's daughter was stolen by her neighbor (one would expect to know their neighbor of plus 20 years). For the love of god who can you trust if not your neighbor ...word of advice if you are on your own hire any maid you want to clean that house even then I dont know she could murder you any day looool...but at least make sure you dnt have kids loool I wouldnt want innocent kids suffering in the hands of weirdos loooool.. Edit - just seen where you said one should drop their kids at a relatives house..saas baa fiican...sax lol... salaam

Iphone is so much better than blackberry but more expensive. So if you are broke go for blackberry saves you money

ilaahay ha u naxaristo marxuumka. But, I think this is also one of the topics we abused in sol over the years. There is not much that can be done. Every parent should take their responsibility seriously and if they don't then they will definitely see the consequences of it unless ilaahay u hadeeyo caruurtooda..walidka kaliya ee hada qurba ilma ku korinaya kaga baxaya wa ka ilmahiisa sifiican gacan fiican ku haya oo la socda waxkasta oo ay qabanayaan oo la hadlaya caruurtooda oo la shekesanaya oo og ilmahooda waxkasta uu sameeyo...like many of you said somalida caruurta way iska dhalaan waxna kama oga.Saddd!!!! salaam

^^criminal did you say??...exactly my point when i said above cidna gurigayga kuma amineen. Aduunka hada la joogo isku haleen ma leh..too many crazy people out there. If I wanted to help someone I will give sum money to the mosque or a school or something lol...xagaa iga jooga DON'T ENTER my house . waxaaba ka daran if you have kids and they steal your kids for ransom or something believe me I am too paranoid to even trust a maid *or maybe I watch too many horror movies lol..I dont know.. salaam

lol I seen this in the news too. How he pulled off still amazes me. Smart guy. salaam

^If you are trying to create local jobs for local people then by all means go for it. After all it is win win situation. But, personally I could not even imagine allowing someone else do my chores or anything else for that matter (cidnaba gurigeyga kuma aminen lol) bt then again if it is for noble reason as to create a job then go for it at the end of the day it is about your intentions.. salaam

Definitely missed Ms DD. She was an amazing sister. So how come Malika you are saying u understand her absence? I hope she left by choice and not because someone insulted her or offended her in some way. I can understand if they both left by "choice". After all sometimes you can out grow posting on forums...and you can replace them with other hobbies. salaam

^The only way it will cost you is your privacy like koolkat gave an example of knowing something abt someone on fb (but for real whoever shares every little thing that they do daily it is their problem and deserve to be exposed)... other than that moneywise it is free... salaam

Heard this song a while back. I don't think there is a wadani somali song out there I haven't heard..btw tnx for sharing it. salaam

Alright Ismalura lol meel aan ku raaco garanmaayo waadna rabta mana rabtid... But, I agree there isnt much to gain from fb...apart from wasting time. Taleex yup glad you agree I guess if one manage their time and use fb to keep in touch with ppl it is not that bad... But, sometimes people tend to over use it and put way too much personal info in there... salaam --------------- SSC ha nolaato ha hungoobo cadowgeedu nacaskeedu haka suulo hanbalyo ayaanu leenahay SSC

I don't think a child that age is psychologically or physically ready to go through such experience. crazy story... salaam --------------- SSC ha nolaato ha hungoobo cadowgeedu nacaskeedu haka suulo hanbalyo ayaanu leenahay SSC

^^loool well as long as u keep in touch with your families overseas and your friends it is ok I guess....at the end of the day it is not about fb being bad bt rather how you use it. salaam --------------- SSC ha nolaato ha hungoobo cadowgeedu nacaskeedu haka suulo hanbalyo ayaanu leenahay SSC

^^You can delete your account if you wanted to. I deleted my old account a while back. Obviously, you just lose access to it nothing is ever deleted online. salaaam --------------- SSC ha nolaato ha hungoobo cadowgeedu nacaskeedu haka suulo hanbalyo ayaanu leenahay SSC

lool again a random comment from nowhere. Somaliland militia is causing so much trouble in the SSC regions. So lets not twist it. Puntland never waged war against the SSC people. Puntland ruled over 10 years peacefully and without any problems. The SSC people welcomed them because they were not secessionist. On the other hand, people of the SSC do not want secessionist militia in their regions. Simple as that.. salaam

^ My previous comment was directed to jacaylbaro. So your comment is out of place... tan kale is yeelyeelka iska daa. Adiga iyo xaajixanjuf isma dhaantaan. In fact, I wonder sometimes if you are one and the same person. salaam

Imikana waxba kama si ahee kii kululaa uun bay isku yara badisee ii daaya Garaadaday soo raaci doontaaye ,,,,,,, [big Grin] I am sure you wouldn't want anyone labeling the ladies you support (Edna adan etc) as KHAMRI CABAYAAL. Edna adan was a foreign minister of your clan state Somaliland and supported the war against SSC. Yet you don't see me calling her names or making up lies about her personal life. So have respect. salaam

Aaliyah, qof ingiriiska degan yaa tabar u haayo saacadaan. [smile] Isha lee u roonyihiin ma ahanee wax faaiido kale malaha. lol true say.

markasta maxa dad badan isku mar ugu soo biraan waa sheko aan fahmi waayey lol.. anyways wlc mr ...enjoy your time in Sol... salaam

Sayid ma soo hubsatay in aad isoo dirtid. waxba ha walwalin ana donanayee lol@ that is me...maka gadhka dheer baan ahay baad maanta la timid. You don't sound like a dude with a big beard....ninanc kan yuusan ka waalin

MMA yeah I get you lol....it is one thing that shes dating him. It is another to say oh he is ashamed of me? ...I am sure most girls have a pride even those who date outside their race and wouldn't settle for such bs.... Koolkat lol MMA somalida wuuu jecelyahay wax wacan buu la raba. Laakin lama socdo in badan in ay meel daran ka dhacay..ilaahay uun ba soo hadeen kara. Ta madow naf ka raadsatay yadaa og mesha ay is genaso.. salaam