you know you r my homegirl and you r welcome in my home anytime you decide except saturdays. lol..kidding... NNC thanks for the invitation to your home girl. But, I wanna come there everyday especially every saturday lol

My dream home..Enjoy the view ladies and gents lol..

NNC you must be tripping that aint ur house more like your dream house (not to sound totally envious or anything bt girl if thats ur house ama move in with you any day loooool) Insha'Allah one day we will get beautiful homes, but thats only gonna be the result of our hard work. You get what you worked for...unless you find a rich somali farah that chance is slim thou lmao..so inshallah we all should work hard

sabar iyo imaaan...ilaahay janada haka waraabiyo.

lool too many posts about marriage and babies.... give it a rest ye'll =)..

I am not much of a skirt girl, I usually wear abaya. But, I like that grey skirt from Zara that you posted Val. Looks gorgeous!!!..

Hope this answers ur earlier question abt the meher price... U can also watch all the other parts. It is so beneficial. Mashallah salaam

lol yeah I need glasses I dnt know y I thought it was NNC instead of Nuune. Waan yaabay...xaal qaado NNC lol ok ppl night.... salaam

lol Ismalura am student just like you baby girl. And, yeah 500 even is enough a week. But, you know like i said the goal is much more than that I either make that crazy money or marry a farah that makes it waxba kama dhaxeeyaan lool.. LOL@ muska gabadh lala galo waxaas miyey nnc ka hadashay I must have missed that part...we are too expensive for that salaam

1000/ week is a lot of money if you are working from home. Thats a bit stretched in fact. But, of course if you have professional work you can get paid much more than that. *(I see our very ms NNC is loaded sister ) And, miss Ismalura NNC probably means it is not a lot of money in that it would be somewhere around 40 k a year...thats not really considered a lot of money. Anything more than 60k should be the goal for someone who spend so many years educating themselves...not to mention usually students have loans to pay back...40k a year hardly cuts it.... But, of course if you are just stay at home mom/wife than that is enough money ninka haduu lacag fiican sameeyo lool... salaam

lol@ ismalura waxa la qaatay gabadh gabadh lo diro...mala yaabtay kan wuxu lasoo taganyahay yaabka yaabkiis kulaha qosolku ka dhamenaya marka guriga tagtid oo marka shekadii dhamaday xita haduu noqdo mid ka qosline too late so ma aha lol marka horeba ba la iska hubsada. NNC thanks hun. Cynical the brother is frm london. You can give him a try or if he is too young try your close friends or cousins or something loool...ama only give him advice thats it

^Such a lier loool...Somalid waxay dhahada beentaada hore runtaada danbe u xuntahay

Adam said all there is to say...Now that I read everything this guy is insulting us to an extreme level subhanalah and yet trying to justify that he wasnt dumbed. In one part he calls bunch of girls sitting at a coffee place retarded? like he doesnt even know them and then his friend calls them immature?? why thou ma idinka la hadlayba mise you wanted them winking at you across the table when they dont even know you??? waa yaab...mesha mala yacni iyo qashin ayuu kusoo qoray not even worth to be commented on... salaam

loool@ you will be yawning every time he opens his mouth........... Thanks NNC I don't think I will settle for arrange marriage.. maba ka helo.... bt thanks for the advice...and no ma jecli in aan yawn gareenayo waxaan u baahnahay one that graduated from sweet talking uni lol...hadalka wacan iyo amaanta iyo ka badbadiska baan ka helaa loool. marka wa runta mid hadii la isoo xareeyo ma asagaaba effort igalinaya wuxu dhahaya the deal is over loooooool... salaam

^^Ohhh my god this is too much. I am gonna make dinner and come back to read this lool...hadalkana in yar maad kala jarjartid madixi baa i xanuuna...But I have an idea is another calcal... Inshallah when I finish reading I will write some response.... salaam

Ismacil lol walaal. I speak some arabic not fluent at it though. As young child I was taught in arabic school and now I take basic university level arabic..but still cant say I speak it properly.. salaam

Aaliyyah sweety, how would Mr Adam know when I'm getting married? I don't think I mentioned a date somewhere here, did I? [big Grin] & I don't mind you trolling here, do whatever pleases you. I'm actually enjoying you're comments with Chimera & Malika, quite interesting. [big Grin] loool I am not really sure why I believed him. You are right how the hell would he know.. Thanks for the sweet comment too ... Maybe a bit naive asking this, but heck, what is garaw & caano? Obviously caano is milk. But what is garaw? I was trying to help you so I googled garaw loool and to no avail I couldnt find what it means. Sorry...so we will just wait for blessed or maybe I will ask my mom later..stay tuned lol Now, about the white dress. I don't think it’s bad to wear a white dress, without looking at the Christian/Jewish traditions. It's just not my thing really. I'ma have to skip that. It never appealed to me nor did I have a certain urge to wear the 'white dress' on my wedding. Mashallah that is nice. Blessed is kind of right deentu way tidhi dhaqanka dadka kale iska duwa inkasto if one's intention is just to look good and pure maybe ilaahay will understand lol My main concern is definitely the colours. Aaliyyah, red sounds nice. Not sure what colour looks good on me though ^^ I've got a not too dark skin tone, chocolate brown-ish I suppose. Should I go for warm colours then? Yes you should sis. Warm colors will definitely stand out and suit your skin tone.

^yeah you are probably right Zack. But, I personally think it is easier to raise daughters than sons in the west. Not that I am saying all girls are good there are ones that go wild and go out of control. But, somali girls on average have shown to be more mature and tend to be more productive compared to somali guys. Just my thoughts... salaam

loool Malika I am sure your brother is a nice guy... laakin gem without money?? maxa laga faaida waa waxba...marka iska hayso but if he wins the lottery you know where to find me salaam

^lool I have no idea waxa islamahan wilasha jecleesiyey maybe waxay ismoodi jireen hadii wiil ay helaan ninku kama ag tagayo oo they secured their position. But, I think it was more of the idea of the society loving sons as opposed to islaamaha wanting sons...it was just the way things were back then.. salaam

^ [big Grin] [big Grin] , that will be an interesting wedding dress - but it is possible,dee waan kuu sugeynaa anaguu[my brother and the family] [Razz] looooool is your brother handsome and rich if you answer yes to both let him know that he can submit an application for a review. Otherwise, no chance dee lool bahamas ama meel la mid ahna waan raba in aan aado yaa diiday..laakin nin haku xaresto asago aroos wacan ku dhigin wa dhib..walee ayeeyday waxaya dhahada nin ciyaarciyaar kula aqal galay ciyaar ciyaar buu kaga tagi kolay aniga nin sida easyga ah ugulama aqal galeen ayeeyo raised me better God bless her soul lol...even though some might mistake my position as being gold digger thats just a new term men made so they can get the easy way out...gold digger wax la dhoho ma jiro a girl is entittled in uu nin lacag fiican ku spend gareeyo hadii kale muxu mesha ku haya ha iska caraabo loool salaam p.s. The only reason I edited was cuz I have no idea why I thought you wrote the bride's dress color was blue instead of red......damnnn I need glasses loool mise somaliwayn baan ku waashay yaab lol....btw I actualy bought blue dirac for eid it looked really nice..

^^I don't think it is so bad if someone wears white dress like its all about intentions white is a pure color and stands for purity/innocence. But, you are right if someone is having only ladies party they have more choice on what to wear. What would you think of a green dress???...that would stand for fertility. It is better when a color stands for something...as just random.. but definitely red looks fab it is actually my favourite color... salaam

ma odhan wiilashu naxaris ma leh laakin waxaan idhi gabadhaha kasii naxariis badan it is about relativity..... Which mother wouldn't love to have 5 daughters mashallah especially if they are raised well... Ilaahay ha daayo gabadhaha somaliyeed ameen.. a new era is gonna start where when a mom has a son she will say "cakuh gabadh baan rabay".. Edited: ops I just noticed the topic of this thread was somali men..not the place for me to compliment somali girls.... haye ilaahay hano daayo wilasheenana inkasto qaar badan ee khyr qabin hadana maxa la sameenaya ducada bal badinaya in ubad khyr qaba ilaahay ka dhigo loool salaam

So mr Adam was tripping when he said u already got married waxaba moday he was telling the truth loool...now I am so gonna stop trolling on your page and would like to apologise. bal aan wax yar ku faaideeyo since I was trolling on ur page all that time lool.. I think it is nice to wear several clothes...like the white dress/diric/ and that cultural thing gurntiino...all in one especially when you are just having that only girl wedding you will not have another chance to wear that white dress and you definitely dont wanna miss out on guntiino in aa xidhatid oo u ekaatid one of those ladies from the 70s or 60s salaam

^^ my mom has more sons than daughters yet when my youngest sister was born less than a decade ago a lady came in to our house an elderly lady and she was like "ma gabadh kale gabadho nigu filan waad haysatiine" just like koolkat said these ladies speak as if the mother has the choice to choose to have a son or a daughter ilaahay qadarkisa ma yaqaana ama wa hadal ama halhees ay u barteen yacni dhaqanki hore... either way guys wiil iyo gabadh anuu gabadhahaan jeclahay. I love my sisters more than anything in the world . I love my brothers mind you laakin gabadhaha ayaa faaido leh oo naxariis badan. If I have a choice in the future not htat I WOULD lol on whether to have a son or a daughter I would prefer to have all daughters....gabadh waa qaali walahay and I am not saying that cuz I am a girl lol..wiil somaliyeed wa laga ficanyahay siiba mid qurbe lugu korinayo. Ilaahay haduu wiil isiiyo quran badan baan saari laha looool.. my 2 cents.. salaam