^^lol yeah thats what I meant settle that I prefer Somalis I wasn't degrading them in anyway ....and im really happy for your sibling....and my heart goes out to ur other siblings who are divorced...I hate that (Referring to divorcing).....especially in our community it is beginning to be the norm nowadays sadly!.. salaam

lol@ the kids are pretty..haa walahi intaas uun ku jeclahay revert, laakin nafteeda lama rabeen qof somali aheen. But, I agree the kids are adorable. inshallah I pray for all those who are married to reverts or ppl from other races. It is not easy! bt inshallah khyr! I once told my ayeeyo as a teenager that I would marry a revert, and she told me "niman somaliyeed miya aduunka ka dhamaday?" wise words! marka maalintay ka dhamadaan maybe ill settle for a revert..otherwise maxa igu khasbaya..lol

tashuush waxay? khalkhal miya? if that is the case I did my job of looking out for them lol!..the ultimate decision rests on their shoulders. haye shekadan wa ka baxay lol..

A_khadar anything is possible but it would be a rare case lol.. Zack bal intaad isleedahay dnt be too nice ya cidla lugu dirin wa iga talo. Not every girl is like this lady, and as showqi said it is very much possible she was annoyed wtih him cuz she had other motives..

lol @uma socdo..marka walaalada baad qarka ka tuurasa more somali sisters for u miya shekadu! xaasid waxid

I seen this one before but I hardly understood what they were saying like Zack.... Regardless of it..it was too cute! Mashallah! One thing I dont understand though is why make lil kids at that age wear jalbaab? why do somalis always go one extreme. In the 80s the Somali ladies barely covered and now their babies have to cover! cant we just be moderate..yacni islam is a moderate religion. And, kids that young dnt need to wear jalbaab. Somalina, I seen that link too. I find myself in tears watching it thou...Alle somalia ha na tuso yadoo naabd ah! ameen.

lol dabcan walalday khyr uun la raba..I guess almiskin meel baan kaga dhacay india ayuu u diyaargaboobayey in uu kasoo qaraabto!

Almiskin lool xaalkaaga waan diiday...heedhe calcal ma aha nimanka india nag ka donanaya maxaan anuu uga calcalaya..too many fishs in the sea. Laakin noloshoda dnbe ayaan uga baqaya..im sure we all say including me that we should respect ppl's choices and i said that 10 000 times thru my other posts..laakin runtu waa laga wacanyahay in umad kale wax lugu darsaday. And, hadii immediate familygeena hindi ama cadaan noo keeni laha we would try anything....in aan badalno choicekooda.. Somalina, waxay tidhi ku dabaalo cashaqa anu waxan odhan laha ninka cidkale waxs ka darsada shekadiisu waxay u badanaanasa ka dabaaalo cashaqa lol..intii alle u naxaristo oo noloshoda iska wacanaata moye inta badan ma shaqeeso.. haye best of luck hadaba ...anu waxba cid uma diidni qofkasta asaga uun noloshiina dabaranay hadii wx ka qaldantana bari asaga uun ka shalayaya...ee anuu I am just advicing lol.. salaam

Celeberating bdays is bid3a (innovation) in Islam and everyone knows that (there is clear difference what muslims do and what islam says)..... When the prophet csw didnt celeberate his own bday who are we to celeberate it...May Allah swt guide them!..

Zack lol I am not saying there isnt nice farahs out there? what I said was those who are thrown out will never be thrown out for being too nice...niman wacan saa uma badna intaa jirtana im sure their wives appreciate them and wouldnt be ****** enough to let them go .. Besides, im not saing there isnt nice guys out htere but opening a door for a wife im sure thats over the top and never lasts. I have seen enough sisters who be like all those lil things way iska dhamadaan after few months of marriage lool...ofcourse im not saing their love ends they still love each and happy!...bt carryin ur purse and openning the door? come on no farah will do that for 20 years more like few months, a year at most. A lady I know told me her husband used to drive her to school make her lunch dinner (sounded like this dude u posted walahi)..bt like after a year or something slowly he stopped doing extra things he still loves her but those were lil extra things he was doing just to make sure he marries her lol...ka dib waxay noqotay naa cuntaada karso..bt ofcourse he still loves her.. salaam

^lol trust me no farah has yet been thrown out of his house for being too nice..taasi waa qiyaame LOl

lol she is crazy...I would take him any day if he was somali ofcourse lol..cooks too good miya tidhi! I need a cook lool..seriously thought shes mentally ill. Besides, how is it too much if he tells her i love u twice a week??? thats not too much!..I would want to hear 7 times a day! LMAO.

I dnt think indian women share. So if u want take part of this u need to divorce your xalimo..mise already bacdi madobeed kuso tuurtay lol

^lol cid calacalasa miyaad aragtaa yaab...at the end of the day odey indian u qaraba doontay cid daneesa ma jirto

Somali to answer your question I personally would never go overseas to find someone...and one does not need to wait...if someone is ready to get married there are plenty of decent ppl!...are u telling me qurbo gabadh wacan ama wiil wacan wa laga wayey and it became inevitable to go back home and find someone? that excuse doesnt make much sense qofkaas uun wax ka qaldanyihin!...laakin kii somalia so boqda oo gabadh wacan hela ma diidani laakin in somalia ama india loo aado with the believe that she will do everything he wants thats just pathetic..or maybe he wants to give an image he isnt...(i stand by my believe wixi magaladiisa wax uga heli wayey qaba lol)..ok im done judging astaqfurulah..Why am i even concenred with this? usually those who go back are in their late 30s and early 40s..! .. Malika, no need to put all somali women in one category..you are a somali sister after all? are u a drama queen lol.. And, believe me at the end of the day wiilkaas somaliyeed aya gabadha somaliyed u wacan and vice versa. Waxba khurafaad ha la isku shekeen ninka somaliyeed muxu uga baahanyahay xaas hindi ah? she can have the cleanest house and the best food (inkasto i doubt that..cuntadooda urtooda kaliya aaba ku xanusanasa lol)...umadyahay stick with dadkiina...thats the only advice im gonna give!.but ofcourse those who choose otherwise get my respect but not my sympathy when things get messy!..dhowaan baa gaabdh somaliyed oo nin carab ah labo ciyaala u dhashay hoyaday u shegasay dhibatadeeda ninki o ka tagay oo carabiyad guursaday yada iyo ilmaheeda midna daneen...at least ninka somaliyeed ee bari kadhaqaajiya hadii uu xita ka dhaqaajiyo reer iyo meel ayaad u tix raacas oo maybe ilahay dadkisa ku sakhiri kara...dadka kale way adkaanasa in aan wax u sheegatid.. ok maanta xoga runta aya iga so fakatay..inta waxa dhaha iska respect gareeya dadka dadka kale wax ku darsada laakin ha ogadaan dhibta kaso raaci karta.. salaam

^waan gartay walaal.

lol oh it was you? .. Thank you macalin ..!!!..funny thing i thought I KNEW everything there is to know abt Somali and Somalia..Never heard abt maxa tidhi!..surprise!

I think I found a match for Pucca..lol mr hanad here..eeg how obedient he is..keen gacanta marka lyidhi suu uso dhibay..ka waran walaaley inankan? ..indian iyo chinese midna uma baahnid.. lol

^did I thank u for something

through this post I learnt that our dialect is called maxa tiri? just wondering why is it called maxa tiri? btw jaale sxb ma noqon karo. jaale saan filayo waa askari camal...

awdal waa dalkaygii dunida aan ugu jecloo dal dheer anigo jira indhahay dul taala. walee waan qiiroooday. I want to know the name of this old man. If any of yu know him let me know...I admire his talent! cant get enough of this particular song....mashallah

Hablaha qaarkood maxa ka caraysiiyey? Ragga INdia aaday waa ku foolxun, waa bakhayliin? rag xun? Miyaani dhici karin nin dookhis geeyey in uu aadi karo meeshu doonto Clearly ninka ka tagaya australia, ama canada ama USA oo india naag u adaya waxba ka qaldan...yacni gartay nin canada dagan oo asagoo canada jooga oo calafkiisa gabadh hindi ah ilaahay u raacsiiyey mafiish mushkila (sxbtey o indian ah inaderteed ayaa nin somalia guursatay)..laakin ilaa iyo india ticket u gooso..kolay kaas ama wa folxunyahay ama wuxuun u qarsoon... laakin sad shegaasay ninwalba iyo dokhisa laakin tani dookh ma aha waaa taking desperate measures at desperate times heheh

posted by Somali, There was this guy from States, he has been married before laakin Bacda madow baa debeda loo dhigay, I wanted to accompany and was curious to see the selection process, It took 2 sessions a day, (30- 40 girls at each session), 7 days to choose one. Somali, lol r u sure that wasnt you .. Pucca I dont see anything wrong with a wife who listens and respects her husband. After all, as the prophet csw said when a woman prays her 5 prays, pays zaka, fasts and respects her husband she will be told to enter paradise from any door. However, Somali ladies exaggerate and even make the man think it is one way thing like the mother you just mentioned. It goes both ways ...a husband needs to meet his responsibility takes care of his family be loving caring religious etc..there are all these criteria that a man must meet ( but their mothers clearly overlook it and jut focus on what the girl has to have) that is exactly why many marriages dont work!!!..the man is expecting a maid not a wife!!.. Seriously, those type of mothers waa laga fogaada...and I think it is best if those mothers just hire a maid for their sons or better yet just keep him at their house and continue taking care of him! I mean why the hussle of getting him a wife when all they want is someone who takes care of him..clearly to them theres nothing else to marriage..... Also, Puca did you say u wuld do the samething..akhas!! regardless of it anuu hindi waligay wax kuma darsadeen si qayra caadi ah baama dadka udhibsada lol... my 2 cents.. salaam

Dadka Afsoomaaliga aasay waxaa ku ogaaneynaa su'aashan yar aan ku weydiin rabo jawaabteeda. Su'aasha waxee tahay maxaa Afsoomaaliga lagu dhahaa 'friend.' Intaadan lasoo boodin 'saaxiib,' think again. MMA, we are all aware that certain words in the somali language was derived from languages such as italian, or arabic. btw I hope u did not get offended by my previous comment I was just joking. I am well aware that af maymay is a dialect within the somali language, and deserves to be recognized and respected!.. salaam

First and formost we are all entitled to share our opinions. However, I am amazed that you put all this effort to write abt Heba in such a negative way. When all she said was that she had the right to wear her niqaab and no one can force her to take it off. Neither Muna nor you need to speak on behalf of the niqaabis or any other women. And, decide that niqaab will hinder a woman from living her life? just like you are entitled nw to share ur opinion every woman is entitled to wear her niqaab or anything else for that matter....and there is no doubt that Heba won the debate. You also questioned why did she made that comment abt having masters? why shouldnt she? it is not abt her being arrogant but she was pointing that she had reached the highest place an educated person can reach yet she chose to cover herself. At the end of the day Heba was speaking abt herself and her entitlement to wear the niqaab. It is funny that you and Mona are on the same boat...and talking abt woman and freedom yet when it comes to niqaab woman shouldnt have the right to choose it...I am not all that surprised by Mona..shes just like ayan hersi and many others im sure she gets paid for what shes doing after all the western ppl love nothing more than a muslim woman who is conveying their ideal way life....... But, I am disappointed in you as my fellow muslim somali sister (and this is not the first time I seen you wrote such posts). It is one thing that you (layzie) dont want to wear the niqaab, many ppl that I know dnt wear niqaab including myself....... infact some of the girls i know go as far as wearing hijaab with tight a-ss jeans and what not (but there is difference between not wanting to wear niqaab and talking abt those who choose to wear niqaab in such a negative way..u went as far as saying i wont mention her name seriously layzie I am shocked)... Anyhow, at the end of the day we are all free to say whatever we want. And, heba is also free to wear niqaab if she chooses to and there is nothing anyone else can do about that (and that is all her arguments boils down to I see no arrogance in her argument she said nothing but the truth)..where Mona was all day saying I THINK I feel..who gives a s-hit what she thinks she only decides what she is gonna wear (clearly she decided not to even wear hijaab let alone a niqaab and she is entitled it is her body after all)..samething applies to everyone.. And, your argument abt governments protecting its citizens by banning niqaab is just ridiculous. There are far more important things governments need to do than ban niqaabs..I am yet to see a niqaabi committing a crime? or is her only crime she is not integrating well in the community? give me a break! it is her choice! if she loses a job like mona was saying heba did ...why does Mona care??? at the of the day if heba decided to be a niqaabi and to not hold a job? how is that any of mona's business or anyone else?? mise dad baa shaqa ka dhiganaya we speak for women's right.....And, isnt part of women's right to wear a niqaab if she choose to?? or the phrase "women's rights" thats used way too much only includes certain rights while it excluded others....seriously there is no need for hypocricy. You are either fully for women doing what they want with their body...or Not! there no room for buts and being wishy-washy. The idea that women should be free but they shouldnt wear niqaab wa shaqo gaalo waana wax aanan ka fileen marka no need to be a hypocrite just like you are free to do whatever you want with your body every other sister is (including heba.).. bottom line, if a sister wants to wear bikini she would, if she wants to not wear hijaab (like Mona in this video shes entitled)...or heba (who decided to go as far as wearing niqaab)...!!..theres nothing else to it..ma shaqeenaso waxaan raba xidhanaya dadka kalena way qaldanyihin say u labistaan (who asked anyone to be anyone's advocate!).. And finally, I have to say that I respectfully disagree with Aaliyah. I adore you, you know this Aaliyah lol I was not aware of that. But, thank you. Aside, from this specific topic I have nothing but good opinion of you. You come across like a smart sister!.. take care...good night~!