I agree AAliyah, especially when you are undergraduate, there is no reason to rush, laakiin as Cali dhuux said “Cabdiyow ninkii caashaq wado, looma caal helo” when it comes to marriage it is hard to convince someone to wait 4 years, when they already met someone they like and want to marry within 6 months. Then you also have the whole issue of is it xalaal to hang out and talk every night with someone you are not married to. So I guess it depends how committed the couples are. If you do not have kids it is not that hard, but with kids it can be little tricky. That’s why I respect single mothers who are still able to laugh and have good time despite all their responsibilities . lol@ cabdiyow ninki cashaqa wado loma caal helo!!...well anigu maba fahmo sida lo cashaqayo mid waxba haysan ...dheh I am gold digger . Other than that I agreed with eveything you said hun. As for single moms, I wonder if they are sane or hiding their insanity. If anyone left me with 8 kids I would probably end up in a mental institution lol dnt knw hw they do it masaakin!.. salaam

~~ok. but waxaan ubaahnahay in xogeey lajilciyo arinta shaqada. kawaran hadu inanka kadhashay reer dhaqaalo leh, is it still condition inuu shaqeeyo? Way wacantahay in u kaso jeedo reer dhaqan oo bari uusan ka walwaleen (they wont share his money with me yay im jokin yeah im nt that evil)..lakin yaga isku dhaqaalo fican asaga taasi ma khoseeso wa in u asna lacagtisa uso dhidida lol..somali waxay ku maahmaahda abo geel leh waxa ka fiican ana dameer leh (yaga o dameer waxba u arkin lakin waxa leeyihiin wuu ka qiimo badan waxa abaha uso daalay).. @aaliyyah, good job, maxa loola jeeda? lol like a doctor, engineer, computer scientist etc..anything professional p.s. if you tell a girl i am a student, she will hardly think you are married. why? ladan iyo aaliyyah ayaa laga rabaa jawabta You are probably young, which is the reason why ppl might think ur not married..odey hadaan arko i would automatically assume hes married student or not lol.. and, also our current culture that most guy students are not married..some are!

^^we are not pakistanis I doubt our parents will encouage students to get married and especially im talking abt men..parents wont push their student sons to get married. With their daughters they are a bit more lenient. My mothe for instance didnt mind the idea of me getting married afte highschool if i wanted to as long as the man has a good job!.. Laakin wiil waxba haysan somalidu kuma dagdagto in uu guursado.. laakin pakistan culture hadaad rabtid oo three generation hal guri kaso wada tosayaan oo lugu wada guriyo 17/18 wa mesheeda salaam

aaliyyah, greatjoy. maxaa tiri, ? ms moon , iskajoog aa? lol. i hope ms moons, goes on even at faster pace. Now that as her older sister she assured me that he works she has my du'a ..all i needed to hear was that he is working lol.. n she wont go in any fast pace..ninka bay ka shaqaysiinasa..he is saving somaad maqal..wakaas gabadh somaliyeed oo qiimo leh .. Somali waxay ku maahmaahda wixi bilaash lugu helo bilaash ba lagaga dhaqaajiya (ive an old soul! ) one thing is very important to appreciate, the need for marriage is a naturall necessity, and not only the well-off people feel the need, even the poor too feel it. so, dont you think, if you condition the need to marriage of the poor, solely to financial capabilities, you are limiting the avenue to meet their need? (i mean the poor) I was talking abt students..ppl who are hoping to have some kind of job lined up in few year's time..and just saying that they should be patient!..laakin if the person is poor and that wont change anytime soon..by all means they have my duca..pennyada ha iska uruuursadaan allena ha u barakeeyo! salaam

so I can honestly say it was really hard trying to do all (kids+full time job+ taking care of the house), but as said it is doable. Good to hear that it is doable bilan. laakin if someone can wait till they are done with their schooling. It is the better alternative....

mashallah ms Moons caqli baad haysa wakaas ..nin shaqaynaya oo dadaalaya....maba fahmo dadka nolosha isku adkeya oo gursada mid waxba haynin inkasto waxba ka qaldaneen yaga iyo taladaas hadana waa nolol la isku adkeenayo.... inshallah ninka ku gursanaya alle haka dhigo mid qeyr qaba.....guurkinana mid waara oo ubad qeyr qaba kala heshaan.. salaam

Ms Moons the link i gave u has too many diffeent desserts i think u have to scroll down.. yeah man xitaa shaah..aniga waxaanba ka daalay ayeeyo o dhahada naa shahan farxalka yaa so kariyay ..

however the money issue matters, everything in maritall affairs melts down to one thing, and only one thing, and that is isfahan. tell me, can money buy that? isfahanku ma bilashu iga bixinaya mise dahab buu iso gadaya..joking!...laakin runtii walaalo aniga waxay ila tahay dadku in ay in ya sabraan waxbarrashadooda dhameestaan saving account furtaan..lacag save gareestaan..shaqa wacan isku hubsadaan. I see no reason to rush. Laakin saan horay u idhi qofkasta isku mid ma aha..it works for some ppl!.. Ms moon I would suggest that u wait till u finish uni, and even if u dnt want to wait I hope at least he is done uni and is working. Makes life a lot easier..howeve, even if both of u are studyin n know what u getting urself into..and are ready to tackle it..intaasna waa wax dhan!...inshallah khyr allena ha nila qabto..uve my duca! salaam

let me add that I am all for a rich man who can provide the it life..mid waxbaanaya oo labo shilin uruuinaya maxa ii ag dhigay but,all I am saying is that if a couple are happy with the little they have they should go for it...And, if someone ku imaan qabo wiil yar oo waxba haysan..it is not a crime and they are entitled for that laakin dhibtu waa when two young couple who are not financially there get married (and they be like inta yar ba ku imaan qabna) oo yacni later all the novelty and the happiness wears out o bilo tagto..oo yacni hadhow shekadii noqoto pay the bills and this and taht..oo hadhow noloshu adkaato o hadhow kala tagaan oo noloshi labadoodaba iska xumeeyaan uun ba la diidaya.. salaam

Zack lol LST hadu odeygan charge gareen laha bari hore buu broke times two ahan laha..damn how many posts does he have LOL anyhow, people stop trolling on my thread It is all abt SAAAAAAAAAAAADO!! iyo SOMALIWAYN!

If it is enough..yada iyo asaguba ku imaan qabaan. No it is nt wrong at all!.. Nabiga csw asxaabtisa qaar gabadhooda meherka quraan bay ka bixin jiren markay waxkale wayaan, yacni halkana anoo ku tusaya lacagta qima badan in ay laheen... laakin dabcan dunida hada la joga meherka kama hadlayo laakin qofku wa in uu bilashiisa bixin kara..noloshu free ma aha...somalia oo kale wa caadi my cousins maalinkasta mid yar ba gursata back home..yaa ka walwalaya guriga ya aa la siina ..kiro ya ka raba..cuntadana dadkooda bay la cunayaan lol..laakin qurbe baa la joga life is tough laakin dadaal baa lo bahanyahay inshallah qofku hadu dadaalayo dhib ma leh..walidka qaarna can be hard laakin if their kids insist and they see them as mature they will come around. salaam

Mashallah Ms Moon I am so happy to hear that.. aniga I was also always attached to my hijaab. I remembe when I was like in grade 3 and all my classmates were not xijaabis not even one single one of them. And, couple of the girls baa isoo tashtay one day they grabbed my xijaab I guess they were too curious lol..I remembe going in tears and our teacher trying to comfort me LOL it is that kind of moments that makes me even understand hw sacred my xijaab always was to me n hw I should neve second guess it ..(even thou i did wear my xijaab backwards for like two yrs in high school) so yeah sista keep it up.. salaam

^^ lool I wouldnt bet on that either sis.... dibjir badal wa sheeko soconeen! it only happens in fairytales...

Aaliyah, I agree. Kinda had similar hijab story and my mum said the same things. LOL. though MashaAllah Aaaliyah way ku dhalan gaadhay to start at 7. LOL Blessed. Alle hoyooyinkeen iyo abayaasheenba ilaahay if iyo akhiraba wax san haku simo janana haka waraabiyo. Anything we do for them will never amount to what they did for us... Sir Mohamud Omar's song "aabe iyo hooyo" comes to mind... Alifka kuwii ii dhigee Islaanimo igu korshow Abaal baan idin hayaa ifkana naxariis ku hela Akhira janadii udgoon.. salaam

When parents think it is unethical they have a reason. I mean if you are still in school and yu dnt have any source of income how are you for instance going to support the girl??JUST SAYING....However, if you are still in school bt do have some sort of income and she is willing to pitch in and has some money. And, your parents are willing to help (inkasto it is hard for somali parents when they have enough on their plate!)..then by all means go for it.. laakin besides teh financial reasons, marriage is a responsibility. And, if you are still for example in school I don't think it is a responsibility qofku ka bixi karo....but then again I know few who got married and it worked for them!..so like some of the ppl im talking abt got married and still lived with their parents and didnt live together even so like they just made their relationship xalaal....while others got married moved in together and they both work while they are still in school. Definitely from my perspective that is just putting a lot responsibility on yourself but alhamdulilah people are not the same so it worked ffor them... It is all relative walaal. Whatever works for you!.. And, at the end of the day waalid kasoo hor jeedaya gabadhaooda ama wilkooda in uu guursado ma jiro haday arkaan labo qof o dadaalaya oo danahooda yaqaana oo shaqaysanaya oo yacni u halgamaya noloshooda laakin..labo dibjir haday arkaan ama wiil dibjir ah oo leh waan gursanana laakin aduun war iyo wacaal kahaynin wa markaas uun marka walid dhahayo maya waxan ma soconaso..inta kale waalid kasta wanaag ilmihisa wa la raba.. salaam

^^Last I heard threads were free on Sol..maxa kugu xaqsaday in aad keyga waxaas kuso post gareeso!! So kindly open your own thread.. This thread is about somaliwayn and appreciating Saado Cali Warsame salaam

yea guy I so wanted to help u ..haye habeen wacan.

I have no clue what I just read lol.. Hope someone can help u out

I remember as a 8 year old staring at a baby sleeping in a crib, and being told "wa abtiga". looool I can relate to that with the exception that I have never met any of my young abtis, they are back home and the youngest of them is prolly around 12... my awoowe alle ha u naxaristo had left beind many kids...alle ha uga dhigu kuwii akhira u shafaca qaada.. salaam

Yup it is a great song. Liban...wadankeynu wa mid qudha indeed

yeah shes amazing! Love her!

Just came home and finally had a chance to listen to it ..amazing song and even more amazing lyrics... Saado cali alle hano daayo wa xidigtii qaranka... A khadar I know u posted it , but this song deserves its own thread .. and yeah I want no hate comments you all. So, if some of u have nothing positive to say just keep it to yourself...that is not too muchh to ask? is it ? ..Guess not! salaam

There is clear differnce between being entertaining and being silly and u fall on the latter...bal behave!

k. Thanks

A khadar how the hell did I miss that song somaliwayn by Saado ......anyhow, latelY I havent been carrying my earphones lol maalin baan so ilawayey and thats it! still keep forgetting it in my room...insha'Allah I will listen to it tonight.. what are the lyrics like??