Moge thanks for the compliment. However, I wasn't insulting men. Laakin it is the truth that girls are as smart as a guy few years older. It is just the way Allah swt has created us you know lmao nothing to be offended about. Taleex lool@ suraha..aniga iyo suuro waan kala fognahay walaal. Holac u sheeg kuwii India u doonanay indians...kuwan yagoo haysta ayeey hindi gursanayeen cajiib. Gabdho sharaf iyo murti ka muqada ba sawiradan ku jiray..wa in cid la talisa nimankaas hindida guryaha kuso xareesanaya loool salaam

bidaarina waa madaxii oo Alle kuu subkey Subkey maxa lola jeedana?

loool I am in my mid 20s, turning 24 soon to be percise but oh my god I used to say a guy can be 10 years older...now that means the man would be around 34 ewwwww! I will change that now to 5 years hence 29! so long he's still in his 20s lmao.. n the reason why you dont want a girl your age is cuz she's 10 times smarter and more mature than you. You are not even teh same level in life. So yeah do settle for ur 18 yrs old, bt then again most 18 yrs old girls dnt get married around here so im assuming u gonna find her back home n somali culture doesn't really fly around here...ppl who are the same age do get married all the time. In fact last wedding I went to the girl was 25 and the guy was 24. Dont know how that works thou lol like I would b sensitive if the guy was even half a day younger let alone a year lol.. bt yeah I guess the old somali mentality is fading away slowly (but personally though I do respect the old somali culture where the guy has to be older but NOT to a point where its like nin ku dhali kara ku dhaqi kara that's stretching it a bit too far lool) salaam

altho the puntland tag was not necessary me think Juxa, they are probably there on scholarships that are being funded by puntland. So, that is most likely the reason lol..bt u'r right it is not necessary.

lol you guys are too funny. n lol@ ma jiniyadii ba laga aroosay. I would bet on that..

Juxa haha you are too funny canada kuwa jooga anaaba u hadleen don't worry u dnt have to add I'm kidding hehe n ur right the girls in those pics all look extremely modest and pretty. Mashallah. moge lol with the exception of two guys in that last pic they all look in their early 30s. n I wasn' talking abt teenagers..down here most ppl dress too casual despite their age. I love when guys wear suits. It's hot lool salaam

lovely pics. Wishing them success! even thou most of the guys in the last pic look old, im liking the fact that they are all dressed sharp. maxa somalido dhalinyaradooda u diiday in ay saa isku hagajiyaan

looooooooool@ decoration xaga alle ka yimid yaabyaabkis sometimes people get bidaar cuz it runs in their family, like there are younger guys who have it. It can also be something to do with age..But, I wasn't aware that bidaar had anything to do with stress? or maybe it does! salaam

lol thats weird. Axmed biif was one of my favorite singers, laakin ma maqal hees uu SSC u qaday. khadar bal so gali if you have it ? I WONDER how I missed it used to like his song Diiwaan in particular. He is talented ...his lyrics haduu cilmi doogta dhigay armu ana igu dara qabriga i daahdaahsha diwaanka armaan gala anigu.. salaam

lol Somalina daruuraha baan fadhiyey dee..inshallah hada waan so daadagaya..isoo ducee dee lmao MMA wu xarooday miya tidhi! caano iyo wiil Yaabka yaabkis loool ur nickname says it all..ya waxan kugu akhriyey lol salaam

MMA lol nin naftiisa dar yeela tu kale ku dara maxa ani wax isoo raadisa orad bal meel isku hubso.. salaam

Malika, I personally know few ppl who are like that...like girls who are just too comfortable with guys even though they are married n their hubbies are just aiight with it! waxaas nin ma aha waa sac! No real man should put up with a girl who is all over other guys..clearly waxan oo kale ba dhacaya lool.. salaam

Somalina lol@ baruur iyo bidaar ..double ewwwwwwwww! .. When I said average looking neither of that came to mind, I just meant I will go easy on my expectations of a tall, mascular hot looking brother looool. so that would mean not that tall, normal build young guy with a hairrrrrrrrrrrrr lol (eww@bidaar) and hopefully he will have timo jilicsan so it can compensate for my buffed up hair A_S well put! mashallah..you have raised excellent points. salaam

Malika now that I watched it, I was tempted to watch it lol...I should be sleeping. Anyhow, the guy doesnt look like a forgiver didn't he say the relationship is over..bt something abt the way he cries makes him across gayyyyish (is that even a word lol) salaam

That show is one of my favourite, I just love all the drama lol as for the man who found out his kids aint his, well as many said he raised the kids and they are as much part of him as if they were his own. But, he should move on with his life. I don't know how it is possible to forgive such *********..it is one thing to cheat, it is another to get pregnant by another man, and it is definitely worse to hide it for 7 years..kolay wuxu u ogaan wayey qaba he must be a dimwit being the man he should have been aware of what his wife doing ...tan sadexad if he forgives her dee he must be desperate cow lol..mala mid kale buu heli karin.. just making assumptions ..didnt even bother to watch the video..its late at my end.. salaam

Jacaylbaro and Co enough with the hate..seriously? time to move on! sadexdiina magaalo happy ku noqda oo u daneeya oo wixi wanag ah u raadiya dadka kalena amaan siiya.. Akash beautiful pics walaal. Awdal state alle ha garab galo..qofkastow intaada imaan ku qaba ..dadkana amaan siiya. nabad iyo walaaltinimo uun ba lugu wari kara.. salaam

loving the pics. thanks MMA.

ms moons if I meet a guy who meets all that I think I will be attracted to him..why not! that man is my knight is shining armor lol... n I agree with the idea that someone can be attracted to some one who is average looking. That is definitely possible! waxa kuso jidan kara the way the person comes across like their personality, the way they relate to u n what not..it doesnt have to be based on physical appearance I hear you. salaam

lol@ once u make three times he does. Insha'Allah I do plan to pursue a career that pays a decent income but I don't think I would wanna make three times as the guy I marry does, something would definitely feel a bit weird about that. At least from my perspective, I would want him to always feel that he is bringing a lot to the family at least financially. That is not to say I am gonna make half of what he does or whatever, just that he makes more lol.. As for the looks, you are right a guy who is average will appreciate you more. Even though I was always into looks, I guess now that im older im a bit not the way I used to be..before it was like oh my he is soo cutee lol..that was like the first thing that would come to my mind hehe.. and thanks for the advice nothing beats religion and education (after all those two need the person to put efforts, like a guy has to educate himself both in the matters of this dunya and like become professional or what not..and akhira) where looks and money come and go..say the civil war when people have lost so much..whether it was their money, or property or whatever ..their education and their deen and their character is still inctact..but money come and go..same with looks.It's all 20 yrs..and then ur old or whatever and that extra good looks will fade..or who knows u might not always be healthy....so again thanks for the advice. But, as long as he is educated I know he has the potential for so much more lol salaam

looooool @ list lug iyo gantaada dharar leeg!..same here walahi! I am not sure what to leave out he has to be handsome, he has to be rich nin lacag haysan xagaan geyni, he has to be religious that isnt even negotiable, and he has to be kind, nice, educated...war wax laga tago ma arko! He just has to have it allllllll...if I will ever leave out anything. It's probably the looks! even that I hope he is average (if there is no attraction maxa la isku sheegi) salaam p.s you said ur list was long, did u end up with a guy who met all those conditions? mise like ppl always tell me ull be lucky if he meets half of what u yapping abt LOL Edit: never mind just realized my question is of a personal nature lol..Skip it

Nabad walaal hadithkaas wan garanaya ee ah in muslimku murayad u yahay walaalkiis. Laakin, si dhuux hadalka hadithkas. Murayadu markay ceebtaada ku sheegaso miyay banaanka so dhigi yacni murayada waad eegi waad arki wixi ka qaldan si hooshoos ah oo waad is hagaagin dagdag sax? sidaas oo kale walaal ayaan ana leeyahay waxa wanaagsan in general sense la isku muxadareeyo hadii qof aad specific rabtid in aad wax ugu sheegtid wa in aad ugu sheegta yaga personally. Laakin gabadhan hada maanto dhan laga hadlo she isn't a soler at least we are not aware of her. Hence, there is no need to talk abt her in specific. You can make a general comment that women are better off dressed modestly. But, then again just to make a point when I said you guys shouldnt leave negative comments I wasn't talking about the comment you made as nabad didaye..but I seen couple of negative comments over here that didn't really make much sense to me and came across as being judgmental rather than really giving much advice.. my three cents salaam

lol@men believe there is lack of men..definitely, that isn't true. Plenty of young guys around who are still single. But, perhaps there is lack of men of quality? even that might not be true to some extent. Like many guys mature later in life and leave that wrong way of life..there is always hope for them to change (or we can always hope that somali maah maah of nin way say xaskisu ka dhigato) but then again I remember posting that article of not getting invovled with bad guys hoping u can change them lol, better you find yourself one that's already there responsible, mature, reliable..and handome as hell lol .. and did I forget richhhh too lol salaam

Indeed. And, she deserves it. Good night walaal. salaam

Amazing article! Thanks for sharing walaalo.

Too funny.