I agree with inajad for the first time lol..kaas horta awal caqli maba ogeen in uu leeyahay. No one should encourage divorcing indeed, however there is difference between encouraging it and merely educating someone about it so they have a headstart - allah yaclam what the future holds.

^lol isn't that a good thing?? mise ta la furay baad dan ka lahed..Joking!

^okey hun. I got you! salaam

Koolkat I liked him too, it is sad that he died so young.. Faheema who said I dont think abt them or pray for them daily..bt either way thanks for the advice. salaam

http://www.thestar.com/news/canada/article/1042988--jack-layton-dead-at-61?bn=1 I can't believe what I am hearing on the news or reading on the Toronto star.. Dunidu wa labo galin salaam

Juxa aniga iyo ayeeyoyinka shekada way iskukeen baxda. May allah swt bless them, grant them jannah, and give them his shade the day where there is no shade but his.. n juxa i posted many proverbs which ones are u referring to? salaam

lol@ somaligi intu ka maray..whats wrong with oba's somali? it is decent me thinkss!! anyways isku mar ayaad isku si' u fakarteen...waana run dad badan ayaa dantooda garaneen. Somali waxay ku maahmaahda nin naftiisa daryeela tu kale ku dara, marka dantaada ayaa horta la gartaa kadib aya dadka wax la tara mid tiisa la liita yuu wax tari.. salaam

Juxa oh okey hun..I wasnt really talking abt the sharia. But, I guess anything becomes complicated when kids and properties get in the way.. Anyways, nin iyo naag is qaba oo raba in ay dhahan isma qabno yaga og meshay is geenayan..who cares!..like they are not even married legally so waxay isku qabsan karan ma jirto lol( between like many said diinta qofka wa inay qaladka iyo saxa kala tusta..hada somali nahay meel daran baan ka dhacnay..explains why caruurti la wada xumaatay wa caruur xaraan lugu korinayo).. inshallah khyr...uduceeyo uun.. n juxa thanks for your posts! salaam

lol n here I thought the lady went nuts...good to know! tnx u 2!! salaam

lol@ a khadar..u had me laughing subhanalah! by the way this lady was talking to her son the other day n she was like shaydaanka iska naar oo so bax tarawiixda...markasaanku idhi eedo shayadiinta wa la xidhey bishan oo way barakeesan tahay. Waxay igu tidhi edo shayadiinti wawayna ba la xidha oo waxaan maqlay kuwa yaryar baa wali jooga..walahi qosol ba u dhici gaadhay laakin markan ka dhaqaaqay baan is waydiiyey talow waxa sheegasa ma waxba ka jira..anyone can give me insight on this.. salaam

mashallah alle ha garab galo, duca baan ku akhriyaaya Reer buuhodle mahad ayeey mudanyihiin. salaam

Oh my god, tuujiye is back. I must admit I never liked any of his posts given that I never understood and they always came across silly.. But, now that I think about it Sol missed his silliness.. wlc back walaal and yeah MMA haka baxsado, bal duca uun ugu dar salaam

*Dunida waxaa uliita,kii aan alle ka baqin So true farax brawn. Of all teh answers, your answer was to the point! mashallah..xaqiiq baad sheegtay!.. n with all this mahmaah - at least all the somali maahmaahs when they say nin - they are usually referring to a person, and they don't necessarily mean a guy... salaam

xaaji is probably right, che I don't see what your problem is lol...nin xaas haysan dabcan waa ugu lita dadka, and vice versa.. marriage is half of your deen, one has to strive to complete it. Of course there is calaf too.. inkasto somali ku maahmaahdo - sadex Ilaah waa karaa, mase suurowdo: Ilaahow guursan maayee wiil i sii; Ilaahow shaqaysan maayee xoolo i sii; iyo Ilaahow ku caabudi maayee jannada i gee basically you gotta come up with the efforts..so anyone who is single is probably lacking in their efforts ama way isla hanwayihiin like mee oo waxay radinayaan mr perfect lol...: but I am not disregarding calaf at all..im just saying dadaal is needed too! so maanta xaaji point baan siiyey, usually im not on his side LOL salaam

Somali baa bari hore ku maahmaahday ninka dunida ugu liita lol..oo ah ma tashade- nin cidna la tashan oo asaga isla wacan ma tashiishe - nin waxba tashiilan oo lacagta waste gareea iyo ma toshe - nin wax qabsan salaam

*Aaliyah, I think you're biased! But I am too, which is why I didn't describe you. Mukurka, suuryada, iyo the fact you are planning the wedding of the century (no iska-xareysi for you) gives me an indication of your looks too. Let's say Masha'Allah! haha val baised iyo nus, reer ayeeyday waan jeclahay.. n thanks for the compliment.. salaam

^Did you just say 50s and 60s..OMG!!

I thought nowadays there was no-fault divorce which basically doesn't require any reason other than the fact that the two don't want to be together ..or am I mistaken?

Lily thanks hun I appreciate your help! Val loool maybe he does! never thought of that.. salaam

my ayeeyo's city buhodle is known to produce beautiful girls..ayeeyday wa la isku dili jiray hadan shekadeeda ka shekeeyo but never mind wa sheeko dheer... The point being I am sure val is one gorgeous sister.. salaam

Somaali u diida ceeb, this is the very first song that I heard of maryan mursal..and one time aan dhageestay heestan ayaa igu filnaatay and from there I was her fan!..talented lady! dunidu way nugula yaabtay, dadiyow u dadaala nabad somali u diida ceeb naftiina u diida cay..and im sure u folks know all teh rest salaam

Maryan Mursal one of my favourite somali artists of all times... sifiican ayeey somali ula dardarantay haday wax ka qadanayaan hadalkeeda.! hadal qiimo badan salaam

^I read it from somewhere I cant remember the exact place - I speak arabic or at least I did hehe

^lol@ cyber baby sis..thanks hun.and kaas warkisa waxba haka so qaadin dadka qaar way iska caqli yaryihiin!.. and it seems he wrote something bad abt u - I see that admin edited it..waxa carabtu ku maahmaahda that a tree needs to be watered when it still growing..hadhow waxaad ku shubtid waxba kama tarayo, marka nin weyn ma maanta edab la baraya? taasi wa maya!