are you a believer?

Ilahey is powerful, right? if God says be it, it can be as we were told in the quran. why ilaahey did not listen to my duaa so many times. That even cried and cried to help me with things. way adonkaga u dhegysaneyneen oo ku baryey. gaaladaba wax kasta wey helaana. please do not quote me as i intend to edit this after i receive your answers.

Ibelieve that Siyad Barre was a president neither mujahid nor a warlord. He was just a dictator rather became a dicctotator after while. As for Somali mujahedeens, I would rather alloow averyone to claim mujahed since the word is being misused, I would say let us all be part of it.

There have been a lot mujahids in Somalia: SSDF, SNM, USC mujahedeen, but there are also Somali born Mujahedeens like Somali woman models; somali warlords. We are all bunch of mujaheddens and that never stops as we have alshabab and ehlusunnah and even the Buntus in Somalia. I just feel said for those lost their lives for being Mujahed in these circumstances. I am still alive and therefore can change my mind at anytime.

Kulmiye, jazza akkalaah kheyran walalo for your dua aameen, It is not that I disagree with what you said but the question is what one can do if it was not meant to happen? it is qadar so we have to accept what Allah decreed for us. That is what I was trying to remind the sister about. Her second post was a bit odd which made me think she is trying to attack ''the feminists'' in the board. I saw women in their 40's who have never been married. They have stronh eemaan and happy with what allah gave them ( health etc). They worship God. It is a test for thier eman. I am not that strong and I remember when I was 26 I was so heart broken by somebody. Then a year and half later I met my husband. I knew him for 2 weeks when we got married. Allhamdulliah, I am with him. I am hoping that allah swt to change this but if it does not happen, I will be happy with what God gave me (my life and health). I am not very religious person and sometimes can lose hope in Allah to the pooint that I do not believe in God, but then I get back in track. It is life and struglle. Emotional struggle. I remind the younger sister that Aisha ra got married when she was 40 before that she was happy with her life and bussines. You got to make something out of your life. If things are meant to happen it will happen. Just be active. Being active is the first step to meet people.

Comparing the people who fought against colonialism with clan based insurgence with all their traitorousness is beyond belief. No Somali will accept that.

May be I do not know how to use it? tell me how shall I take advantage of it? and how would I know who viewed my profile, please?

There are also some marriage sites you can join. I do not know if there are SOmali exclusive marriage sites though, just google. Look smart all the time and be honest of what you looking for. But remember if you get desperate nobody would want you. Just go around and have hope in ALlah swt.

:rolleyes::rolleyes: I was just trying to be helpful; I did not say that you do not have a Degree, just raised questions followed by suggestions. As far as I am concerned marriage is qadar, you can try your best but cannot force it to happen. I suggested that you should be active with your life so you might meet someone through your activities. I did not get married until I was 28 (3 years ago). I am 31. I met so many people but I was destined to meet my husband out from nowhere. I am quite new here so I do not know if you are referring to other female users. By the way, there is nothing wrong with being feminist. It all depends on how you interpret it. I do not know your intention of coming here, but I do not think advertising yourself in this way, would not help you. May be you should learn about shukaanso and slowly get to know the brothers online. If you do have to/should not feel lonely in life even if you do not meet someone. Your purpose in life is not to get married but to worship Allah swt. A lot of people are single and happy. I have been married 3 yrs now, but we do not have children yet. God know if we would have children or not. Nothing is guaranteed in life. You just keep going.

Question: how could I see who viewed my profile?

23 is not old. Do not compare yourself with your friends, you are you. You go for what makes you happy. Do not you have other goals in life? education and career? You do not have to get married if you have not met the right person. The way I understand marriage takes place under qadar, so what about if it is not you qadar to get married? would you be unhappy with your life? I hope not. Life offers other things that can make someone happy, it is what you make of it. So I suggested (if you are serious) that you should make your life active; who knows you may meet someone. Good luck.

Either.

wahan ku qore somali so we can discuss this in private, well sort of. I just want to hear from the experieced somalis with regards to how to deal with racism and discrimination. If you think this is not your problem, please stay away from it. For me this is a huge problem and has been for many years. wahan dooni ina la talisan the right way to act when you come across such things at work place. Aniga waxan donaya qof ila hadla si wanagsan because this is a topic that touches me deeply. Another issue is the attitude of non-British Europeans who find jobs steadly fast, and many times discriminate against Somalida. The other day I went to the Housing benefit to interprete for a relative of mine, we saw a young European non-English speaker who looked down on us, particularly si yaab u fiirineysey my aunts clothes. she was incridebly rude. I did come across similar things in the past. Those women I saw speak strong-accented English yet they want us inaan anaga dad liitaa nahey. I once made a written complaint on behalf of one somali woman, but the response was quite dismissive. What would you do in this situations. I am pretty angry. Mahasanid.

Ilaahey ha nagu anfaco, I thought that was for wax kheyr ah and not for feedback. So feedbeyka ilaahey hagu anfaco, you made me laught

OK, it is written in a formal language; kind of an essey type. Simplfy the language to give it some fictional flavour.

Interesting thoughts. What is it for? do you want feed back?

Yes, I have an account created nearly a year ago, but I do not find it that useful. A couple of times I saw short free trainings in London, that was it. I downloaded my Cv. Have you had any succes with it?

Hi, I voted yes. I am not a regular user but I thought the blue colour was much better than this.