She asked our opinions ... all of us. Yet, she knew it wouldn't sound good. I do have a right to question her sanity when I get a call in the middle of the night to be called with names and hanged up on. Everybody else got to be insulted weither by phone or in public. BTW, who would give their boyfriend your friends number? So yeah, that was strike one already. Many other things made us think this love triangle may have changed her. It's her decision what she want to do but she doesn't need to drag us in there. But, it is not smart move to treat others in a horrible way so she could feel better for themselves. (I love my peaceful mind no drama please)
By experience, it's better to be BFF with family member because at the end of the day, you have no choice to make amends. Still sharing an ice cream with the same girl. Funny thought, our mothers use to fight each other over bissbass when they were pregrant of us.